- 2 years ago
glimmeringpink96 : Is he irresponsible and lazy? I guess that’s what the OP says, so you could take her word for it. But I would actually argue the OP sounds rather irresponsible and lazy. Staying with a man she doesn’t love for eight years is irresponsible and lazy. Getting drunk and making out with her husband’s friend is irresponsible. Blaming all the choices she made that led her to this unhappy point in her life on outside forces, rather than taking ownership, is irresponsible and it’s also super lazy.
But even if you’re right and the husband is the laziest, most irresponsible mofo out there, he still doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, and certainly not with his own friend!
ETA: That being said I disagree with pp that she’s a “horrible person.” I just think she has gotten into a bad cycle of making poor choices and not taking responsibility for them. Therapy will definitely help with that.