(Closed) Another boyfriend doesn't find me attractive post.

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@littlerabbit:  Sounds like you’re making the right choice. Sorry that you’re going through this, though. You’ll find someone way better who thinks you’re beautiful and treats you like gold.

Post # 4
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226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I agree with the above.  you will find someone amazing!

 

Post # 5
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2055 posts
Buzzing bee

@littlerabbit:  What an idiot. You are right in deciding to get far away from this loser. He has mixed-up priorities, and you should find someone who doesn’t vary how well he treats someone, simply because he finds them attractive. I am so sorry that you regarded so poorly, and I wish you all the best.

Post # 6
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3769 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Holy crap I can’t believe he said that to you.  You don’t have to settle for someone who thinks you are “two plain looking people who had ended up together” … you deserve to find someone who thinks you’re gorgeous and that they are lucky to be with you.

Post # 7
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2117 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I cannot believe he was that rude! If you do move on, I say good riddance! He sounds like a jerk. You deserve someone who thinks you’re gorgeous and treats you amazingly!

 

 

 

Post # 9
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4656 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@littlerabbit:  You are making a good, clearheaded call. DTMFA and find someone who thinks YOU are a beautiful reward from the universe.

Post # 10
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470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Im glad you’ve come to that conclusioupon your own. EVERYONE deserves the best possible treatment from their loved ones, regardless of their lookS. I’m sorry you’re going through this. 

Post # 11
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4979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@littlerabbit:  I think men generally want a beautiful wife, yes. But my FH thinks I’m the most beautiful woman in the whole world. Does anyone else think so? I have no idea. Personally, I think I’m pretty plain. But, to him, I’m gorgeous. 

Anyway, good riddance to that loser! 

Post # 12
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Ugh good riddance. I am so happy that you made that decision. And most definitely, guys do NOT all feel that way. Once in a while you will find a guy who isn’t so immature to care about ‘average’ looks vs ‘hot’ looks and will appreciate you for the beautiful person you are. And the bonus is, to that guy you will be the most attractive person and he will treat you like a queen because he loves you, irrespective of what you may or may not look like. 

Post # 13
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297 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

exactly what @littlerabbit said! Your husband is the one who will see you at your worst and still love you for it – hairy legs, no makeup, tear-streaked face, etc. You’ll find him, he’s out there.

 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Congrats on your impending breakup. Sounds like the right move.

Don’t worry, there are plenty of men who will treat you like you’re the best thing ever and will think you’re the most beautiful woman in the world because you are the woman he is in love with rather than based on whether or not other people also think you’re hot.

His heart finds you beautiful but his eyes don’t? WHAT THE FUCCCCCCCKKKKKKK. But then, I am one of those people who can easily see physical beauty in people. Even if you’re not stereotypically hot, I am sure you have many beautiful features that add up to a beautiful whole. That he is too immature to see that is sad for him.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@littlerabbit:  I do not think you should marry this man. Good for you for realising  this as well. If he says these things now I can only imagine what he will say to you and how he will treat you years from now if you are his wife. Culture makes no difference as far as I am concerned.

I think men want a beautiful wife, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My Fiance thinks I am drop dead gorgeous and says so to anyone who will listen. There may not be another man in the world who would agree with him, but it doesn’t change what he sees in me.

There IS a man out there who will see you as the most beautiful woman he has ever laid eyes on and will treat you accordingly. Don’t settle for anything less, hunny!

 

Post # 16
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634 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@littlerabbit:  I’m glad you discovered his feelings early.  Sometimes I just don’t understand people.  There is a man out there who will see you as the most beautiful woman.  It might be next week, next month, or next year.  Be patient and it will be worth the wait.

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