(Closed) Another Cheating Post

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

“My live in SO has been sketch since, well forever.”

This sentence alone says volumes about him.  You can do better.

Post # 4
979 posts
Busy bee

WTF do you do now?  Forget about him.  

ETA:  You don’t untag or delete your girlfriends pictures when you are trying to get a job. 

Post # 5
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Ok, well none of that behaviour proves he is cheating.  The message from the girl does not show anything to me about cheating?

I think that your gut tells you hes cheating.  And you did say hes always been “sketch”.

And Facebook really shouldnt have any indication about where your relationship is going.  My Fiance doesnt have any relationship status at all. 

But anyway as I was saying, it sounds to me that you are looking for things.  Doesnt sound like you trust him at all.  Maybe you should talk about it or end it? Those would be the only options right

Post # 6
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It sounds like he’s putting you in second place.  You deserve much better than that!!

Post # 7
598 posts
Busy bee

Why are you still with this guy? If I even had the slightest idea my SO was messing around, BUH-BYE NOW!

Post # 8
3667 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@kjo:  It’s not Facebook itself, it’s that he is going out of his way to make himself appear single.

You deserve a guy who is proud to show you off, not pretending you don’t exist.

Post # 9
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

um leave. you don’t need concrete proof.  You have that proof, you just can’t see it since you’re in the midst of it all.  Trust me you’ll be able to see it all much clearer when you’re on the outside again looking in.  

he sounds like my ex, right down to the lawyer part. 

Post # 10
5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

For me the biggest problem isn’t the potential cheating its that he doesn’t seem proud to be with you. I wouldn’t waste my time with someone who was constantly trying to hide my existence. If he wants the single life let him have it.

Post # 11
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

This sucks. Sorry to hear that your SO is treating you this way. He may not have cheated on you but obviously his intentions are not good.

Post # 12
6512 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

WTF do I do now??

You dump him, that is what you do!  I dated a guy once who “liked to be private” about FB, and had similar BS excuses.  That was because he was a slimeball who was using FB to find other girls to cheat with. 

And even if you haven’t caught him cheating, you HAVE caught him lying.  Shit, you described him as sketch!  Get out now hun.  And feel free to PM me to talk if you need support.  I promise that dumping him is the right thing to do, and that you will find someone better. 

Post # 13
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@tmarino24:  I can’t prove anything so I can’t do anything about it.

Um, yes you can. You can dump his ass for being totally untrustworthy and clearly not being proud of you and your relationship together!

Post # 14
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

This is really strange behavior. I have never untagged a boyfriend in all of our pictures while I was trying to get a job. I really think the best decision for you is to leave. You deserve someone who will treat you like a princess and want to show you off to the world. Not keep you hidden.

Post # 16
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can’t prove anything so I can’t do anything about it.


Yes you can, you leave him.

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