(Closed) Another disappointment

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t feel bad. Just try to think of the positive and not so much on the negative (i know it’s hard). Just see what you have and not what you don’t.

He will propably want to surprise you and not do it when everyone expects him too. Plus would you really want it on your birthday ? Think, you just had a beautiful celebration… when he proposes, it’s going to be another wonderful moment, you don’t want the two to be linked together, do you ?

I wouldn’t. Just enjoy your relationship and every moment, i know it’s easier said then done but believe me I’ve been there and nothing good comes out of concentrating on the negative. Maybe if you need to, talk to your SO about the timeline and tell yourself that he will do it at the end of that timeline, this way you will be surprised when it happens sooner 🙂

Post # 4
253 posts
Helper bee

It will happen maybe he doesnt want to do it when he thinks you will think it will happen.. watch you will get it on like a random sunday morning when you dont expect it lol … Relax the min you get engaged .. the wedding will be here everything goes so fast noone enjoys life anymore. you blink its another day.

Post # 5
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Motor Yacht Destiny

@jna300:  First of all, happy belated Birthday!!!!! Laughing Second, don’t be sad, I know it’s hard and you feel bad for being sad because he tried so hard to make everything great, but just remember, that when it does happen, you’ll be so happy that everything before will be a distant memory and will feel totally worth it!  I’m in the same boat as you, and know that words of encouragement are just that, words, but try to cheer up and remember that SO loves you and wants to be with you, and is probably planning some great proposal that will sweep you off your feet! I’m rooting for you! 

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