(Closed) Another Facebook Vent- Posting the cost of your ring!

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@jayce: I really don’t think the ring is the point here…

Post # 33
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@enoh102: I totally agree, it’s messed up as hell! But the way I see it, either you stay in her life and try to help her when you can, or you cut her out and forget about it. It’s not doing anyone any good for you to cut her out and yet continue to wring your hands about it.

I know how frustrating and helpless it feels to watch someone’s life spiraling out of control. If you feel that you’ve already done everything you can, then let it go with a clear conscience.

Post # 34
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Tell her how sad it makes you that she is doing this to herself.  I would hate to see my family doing something like that.

Post # 35
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@missfireslayer: I personally think the ring is an absolute non-issue, which is why it was so surprising to me that so much of the original post is focused on it. That’s been cleared up, but thanks for making your point.

Post # 36
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

People aren’t going to change or move on until they are ready, you can explain all you want and lose sleep over it but she isn’t going to get it.  I would keep her off your friends list (makes life a lot easier for you so you don’t have to be stressed every time you sign on to FB) and simply reply that it is killing you watching her kill herself but that she is still your family and would like to keep in touch.  Short and simple!  Also tell her that you can’t take the broken record so conversations about him will not be discussed.

Post # 38
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@enoh102: That was very kind and gracious of you. Thanks for keeping us updated.

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