(Closed) Another porn topic

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I know what you mean but in a different way. We usually watch it together and when we watch together, we each pick a category so it’s always interesting to see what he’ll pick. He picks a variety of things but for the most part, he’ll pick “latina”, so it makes me feel good. Lol. I guess that’s just his preference.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2005

I am a big girl too (size 24 46D) and I noticed my Darling Husband likes the girls with more meat on their bones.  He really likes the BBW stuff.  He has never really liked the skin and bones looking girls, nor does he like blonds (unless, of course, they have some uber “nasty” talent LMAO).

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I am a big girl (size 14, DD) but when I or Fiance watch porn I prefer to see those unobtainable, “perfect” tiny women. I’m sure Fiance does too, lol. I guess it sort of feeds into the ridiculousness and “fake”ness of porn for me, like really am I ever going to be a size 0? No. Is the pizza guy with the 12” dick going to seduce me? I don’t think so. It’s like if I’m going to watch porn and go fake, I’m going to go all the way fake.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I never noticed nor did I ask.  He told me that he used to look at girls that were similar to me while we were in a LDR.

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Whenever my Fiance watches porn I know there will be “big booty” whatever in the title. Haha it doesn’t matter how they look. He just loves big behinds.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’ve posted before that I work for a porn company, and my entire job is dealing with porn and the sex industry. I don’t care if my Fiance watches porn.

It does make me arch an eyebrow that he prefers women who look nothing like me. Fiance specifically prefers plus sized women with HUGE natural boobs. I think the women are hot, and I love boobs as much as the next person- but it doesn’t mean that it sometimes hurts me to know that he would find me more attractive if I was a size 20 instead of a 1 or 3.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t know what the women look like in the porn he watches, but I am a size zero, no boobs, and blonde. I think that’s just what a lot of guys like, so they use that the most. I really don’t care what they look like, honestly. As long as we’re still having awesome sex, whatever.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

No, it dosn’t bother me. He dosn’t seem to have a preference when it comes to Porn Stars, but he has complained about all the fake boobs, otherwise it is just porn to him. He uses it for its purpose and then turns it off.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Mine likes really tiny, no hips or anything. While I was away for work he was googling them and I’ll never have that body shape. Makes me feel inadequate a little to be honest so I just try to put it out of my mind.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Snow00774:  Too funny… we have the exact opposite problem.  My husband is really attracted to Kim Kardashian body types and I am not curvy at all.  I felt inadequate too, for a while.  I’m not sure exactly what freed me from it, but my confidence is back and I think that’s more attractive than anything else.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2005

@Cady:  My Darling Husband hates the fake boobs too!  He says they are icky. lol

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

that’s so awesome that you got affirmation through his porn stash. but my husband watching porn at all upsets me. however, if it were close to my body type/looks i might feel somewhat better about it.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

My SO and I don’t watch porn.  We feel that it creates unrealistic expectations in a relationship…  I have nothing against anyone in porn or anyone who watches it, it’s just a personal preference!

However, before SO and I started dating, lots of very thin, gorgeous girls would flirt with him in front of me, so I assumed he liked girls like that.  I’m a size 18, Dirty Delete.  After  we started dating I tried to lose weight, and he freaked out!  

I think if I had seen examples of body types he liked that were similar to mine, I would’ve been a lot more comfortable at the beginning of our relationship.

 

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