(Closed) another rsvp rant

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

I would have been ready to kill- “i’m going to be needing 5 seats so i can bring my kids if possible.” “my daughter and i wanted to go.” Tell guest #1 that you’re not inviting your cousins, so no, her kids can’t attend.

For those late-RSVPs, this e-mail worked wonders for us:

Hey- Just wanted to check on your RSVP for our wedding on July 13th. We know how easy it is to let these dates get away from you, however we need to give our caterer a final number of guests. If we haven’t received your reply card by June 23rd, we’ll have to assume that you are unable to attend. Hope you’ll be able to join us on the big day. 🙂

Post # 4
7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would give them until Saturay to give you a response. You are going to find majority of the RSVP cards come right away and about a week late, so you may get quite a few this weekend or early next week. Then I would start calling immediately.

The e-mail suggestion above would work nicely as well, however, I would still call guests and confirm if they are coming or not becuase some may not have an e-mail they check regularily.

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