(Closed) Another RSVP vent. (and a quick question)

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

No I don’t think it’s safe to assume that… I personally would order a steak over salmon any day.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I don’t think it’s a big deal to mix up a couple’s entree if they check instead of initial… after all since they’re sitting together they can just switch.

I think it depends on the people.  I know in my group of friends, there would be a lot of shit-talking if I used that rule of thumb so I’d probably just go alphabetically or something else.  But whatever you do, I don’t think it really matters since the people whose orders might be switched will be couples and families who can just switch plates.  (actually, often in my group, couples will order opposite dishes so they can both try each)

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

OMG- we are date twins and I am having the EXACT same problem. Nobody is initialling! I am putting chicken with girl and steak with guy when this happens…

honestly , they can switch if they have to I figure!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m with futureMrsCPT, I would choose steak over salmon BUT I also wouldn’t care if it was just a quick switch between mine and FI’s plates.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011 - St. Joseph's Parish, Seattle Tennis Club

I had this same problem too!! 🙂 SO many people just put a check, or an “x”, or something. Ha. Silly people.

I don’t think it’s a huge deal, as I presume the couple will be sitting together, so they can just switch as necessary.

But yeah, this bugged the crap out of me.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I think it’ll be fine if you just assign them that way.   

(I also would have no problem switching plates with Fiance, I was just saying I would want the steak…but then, so would he so we wouldn’t have that problem Wink)

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