(Closed) Another skinny bitch thinks she’s fat.

posted 7 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
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686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I sympathize, and at the same time I also understand, to an extent, girls who do that. Low self-esteem doesn’t have size boundaries. I’m not heavy by any stretch, but I’m still uncomfortable with my body and sometimes getting reassurance from others that there is nothing wrong with you can go a long way.

 

Then again some girls really are just attention whores. 😛

Post # 4
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Umm because they want the attention!! It makes me sick!! But, I was super skinny in high school, and I will say that anytime I ever made a negative comment about myself, I always got, “yeah right, you look great, you’re crazy blah blah blah”. I never did say I was fat, but there were things i didn’t like, but people always thought that because I was skinny I couldn’t have body issues.

Post # 5
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7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

snicker.

although – maybe they really DO feel fat???  (ok, I’m trying WAY too hard to give them the benefit of the doubt).  BUT – my point is – when I weighed 230, I didn’t feel as fat as I was.  Now, I’m 150 and I feel HUGE (to the point of feeling like I weigh 230) – but I know that I don’t look it.

Post # 6
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

LOL

Post # 8
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Damn lol. I will admit that I’ve done something like that, but I gained 20lbs. After I posted the pics I realized that I didn’t look any different, but I knew I felt different! Sometimes I think it’s just that a person can feel bigger but not look like it. I knew I felt a lot bigger and my jeans weren’t fitting anymore, but the only things that looked bigger were my butt and boobs.

I will admit that some women do it just for the attention or for the self-esteem boost, which is downright stupid. So I see both sides of your issue!

Post # 9
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I hear you!

But even if you are still technically thin…gaining ten pounds (which I did last year) still makes you FEEL bigger.  I don’t complain about it to anyone but Fiance though, because I’m pretty sure I would get those STFU looks lol.

Post # 10
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1679 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Three words: Body Dysmorphic Disorder

I experienced it when I was younger. I was between 110 and 115 (5’7″) and was completely convinced that I wasn’t thin. I’m not sure I would have posted about my weight on a wedding website, but a few might really believe they are overweight.

Post # 11
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2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

One of my biggest pet peeves!!

Post # 13
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@Miss Tattoo: Ugh agreed. Fishing for compliments so annoying. Blah blah you are fabulous, blah blah now go back to eating your popcorn cakes.

I feel fat everyday, yes everyday….and I don’t post it all over the cyberspace.

 

Post # 14
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5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I see both sides as well. It’s ANNOYING as [email protected]*# when people complain about something non-existant just to get praise. (I’m not skinny enough, my ring’s not shiny enough, etc…ooOMG Oh noez, you’re so hot with such a gorgeous ring and you’re smart and blahblah, etc etc).  O.o STFU

But, as a slimmer/smaller person myself, I can totally notice the difference in my weight now as opposed to 5-10 lbs ago. So even if my friends are honestly telling me that they think I look fine/great/whatever, I personally know that 10lbs back I was in much better strength and shape and that’s where I’d like to be again. They met me at this weight, but it’s not the weight that I’m comfortable with, even if it’s totally in the healthy BMI range. I’m not the type to post emo-I-wish-I-was-thinner-pics, though, so I’d hope that I’m not the type that’d annoy ya 🙂 

Post # 16
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Miss Tattoo: umm yeah, in that case, she needs to get over herself

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