(Closed) another update

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I have been following your posts and can honestly say, I admire how strong you are being. This has to be wearing you thin. I am like you, I need to talk things out, so I can just imagine how tough this is for you. It sounds like staying at your cousins house this weekend, or even for just a night, would be a good idea. Let us know if he comes to bed with you.

Post # 4
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3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

good work! handling it really good.. step by step and good idea about contacting your cousin.

*fingers crossed it all works out*

Post # 8
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3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

what a tool… sorry… I wouldnt be happy with him if he spoke to me that way.. I wouldnt be saying anything to him for the rest of the night. But i guess you have to civil, you want to keep him instead of kicking him out the door and saying you were right..

Post # 9
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

I know you love him. But seriously, this guy is treating you like trash… I mean, he does things that show he cares, but then he says mean things. He’s got you wrapped around his finger!

I think you should definitely go visit your cousin and maybe look into a new hobby over the weekend–what’s something you’ve always wanted to do?

Post # 10
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455 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’d call him a jerk cause he is a jerk for responding like that when you did something nice for him.  Even if you guys are fighting and he is on the couch and blahblahblah… it’s still NICE of you to do his laundry.  Jerk.  Though I guess you’re walking on pins and needles right now.  Good luck.

Post # 11
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1601 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i think it’s great that you’re giving him so much space.

i know when my bf and i were going through a rough spot and he needed space, he didn’t think i was going to do it, so i’m sure you Fiance will at some point realize how incredible you are just for not being so needy.

 

definately keep us updated, and i’ll be sending good thoughts your way!

Post # 13
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

I think getting out of there for a few days will be really helpful.  He is going to misinterpret everything you do and say or don’t do or don’t say right now  – and you are going to drive yourself crazy over thinking and analyzing it all….

Post # 14
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

Agree with Janna… you just need space! As long as the two of you are in the same space, you’re going to be tense and he’s not going to have enough of the space that he needs

Post # 16
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1487 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’ve been following this too, and I’m sorry.  I mean, I do think that he’s treating you with a complete lack of respect, and based on some of your previous posts, it seems like while this is the worst, it’s not the first time.

However, I know you must be hurting like crazy, and I just feel horrible that you’re going through that.  It’s heartbreaking.

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