Member- stephk23
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
I’m having a bit of a dilemma. I have two fathers. My biological dad and my step-father. At this point in my life I don’t feel any closer to one than the other. My parents divorced when I was 5, Mom remarried when I was 8. Bio-dad was never a part of my life, I saw him twice in 20+ years, but I know he wants to be a part of the wedding. Step-dad raised me as his own, he and my mom divorced a few years ago and the way he behaved immediately after that made me lose a lot of respect for him. Ultimately, both of these men have helped make me who I am today and I can’t imagine excluding one of them. When I first started planning, I planned to have them both walk me down the aisle, one on each side. However, I recently went back to the chapel and the aisle is way small, all 3 of us will not be able to walk at the same time, so… Now what??! Any ideas?
