(Closed) Antique/vintage/estate/preowned wedding rings yay or nay? (and post your pics)

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have a lovely wheat patterned 18K white gold Belais Brothers wedding band from the 1930s.  I LOVE IT.  I love that no one else has it, and I love thinking that maybe a happily married couple used it 75 years ago.  


Post # 4
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I have quite a few preowned rings and I love them all.

I don’t get the “history you may not know” thing. 1. I don’t believe in magic so I don’t think bad feels can get magically stuck to a ring or something. 2. A ring that old could easily have been worn by a woman who was happily married for fifty years until she or her spouse kicked the bucket. 3. A ring could have been sold for any number of reasons that aren’t bad. 4. Magic still isn’t real. 5. Do you also say you shouldn’t adopt a kid because the bad luck might stick to the orphans? No. You generally think it’s nice to give something that may have been unloved a good home.

So take that old ring and give it a good home.

Post # 5
562 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 1993

I love antique jewelry and that band is gorgeous.  I wouldn’t have any qualms about wearing it either!  

Post # 6
3101 posts
Sugar bee

@hislittlepenguin:  It’s pretty!  And it’s a great feeling to know that you’ve found your perfect ring.  My ring is from a pawn shop.  As far as “pre-owned but I don’t know the history” goes, all I know and care about is that it’s MINE NOW!  Seriously, doesn’t bother me at all.

Post # 7
985 posts
Busy bee

Gorgeous! I loooove antique/vintage/preowned things!

This is what I will eventually use as my wedding band. It was my grandmother’s eternity ring. It used to have similar engraving on the sides but has worn away sadly.

I definitely don’t think used rings are cursed or anything! I think they are beautiful and so different from what you would find in a regular jewellery shop today.

Post # 9
554 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yeah vote. My e-ring is my grandmothers so it reminds me of her and has good mojo. My band is from eBay so I don’t know the history and don’t even think about it.  I think if I knew a ring had an unhappy history I wouldn’t want it but since I don’t know I don’t care.  Sorry bad pic, I took it to send Fiance the day I picked up both our bands from the PO. 

Post # 11
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Our weddding bands are from estate sales.  You find better deals and a more unique collection.  If you have any doubts about the ring have it blessed with holy water-if that works for your faith. Or you can do a sea salt cleanse yourself.  Whatever works for you. 

Post # 12
184 posts
Blushing bee


I’ve posted this before. but here is my 1920’s engagement ring with a wedding ring (bought separately) from 1926. It has engraving on the inside with initials and the date 7-3-1926. I love it! Your ring is lovely and think about how cool it is to wear something with HISTORY, even if it is one you don’t know! That’s what makes them so interesting and adds mystique to an otherwise ordinary item. Ignore the haters. 🙂 

Post # 13
1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I LOVE antique jewelry and I think everyone’s rings on here are gorgeous. That being said, for me, I did want a new ring that was purely my own. So, I guess I believe in the “history you don’t know” stuff.

@Mrs. Camel:  I don’t consider myself a “hater”. It’s just a personal preference for me. Same goes for ring styles that I do and don’t like. 

Post # 14
3276 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

A lady bought the ring I have, upgraded through Kay to get a new ring. My ring is still for sale in stores so she must not have got it too long ago. But it was 75% for being preowned and is still like brand new!

Post # 15
2301 posts
Buzzing bee

@hislittlepenguin:  Oh! I LOVE your ring.


I own three antique cameos. One is my great grandmothers and I dunno who owned the others.


I also own mourning jewelery and I will wear it on occasion and I do wear it to funerals as well.  The history behind them is sad because someone died, but I love them and think they are beautiful.


I say wear it proudly.

Post # 16
5423 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

Im all for it. I have a 1920s platinum ring and a yellow gold family ring from around the same time. I sometimes wear the yellow one alone 


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