(Closed) Anxiety about wedding day going smoothly.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

It’s going to be ok.  Keep your eyes on the prize; you’re almost there! 

I’ll be totally honest, 2 years after the fact, I’ve gotten over pretty much everything that went wrong at my wedding.  It wasn’t perfect, and although I was upset about some things even a couple months afterward, it’s all gone away now.  Now, when I think back on my wedding, the only things I remember are all the wonderful moments (like seeing my husband tear up watching me walk down the aisle or all our guests giving us a standing ovation at the end of our first dance).  Your wedding probably won’t be perfect, you may have some hiccups, but all of that bad stuff fades away.  🙂  Good luck!  You’re going to be fine, I’m sure!

Post # 4
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753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You can’t please everyone. I think if you incorporate a little bit of every culture that should please most of your guests. I think multicultural weddings are unique and interesting so I’m sure everything will be fine. IT WILL all WORK out and it WILL be WONDERFUL! 🙂

Post # 5
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2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

It seems to me Russian food is pretty delicious and if your Russian guests have been in America for a while they’ll understand that even if they don’t like the music it’s a necessary evil.

I’m in a similar situation: my family is Greek, his is Canadian (and so are all our friends). We’re going to start the evening with Greek music to please the old people and then, when it gets to their bed time, we’ll go more modern.

Post # 6
Hostess
11068 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Meowkers: I was worried about people enjoying themselves but they all did and everyone said so. It will run smoothly no matter what – I had a centre piece missing (partly mine and the florists fault), you may have the odd thing that doesn’t work out as you wanted it to, but everyone will look after you.

Post # 7
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1303 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

mmmm, I’ve never had Russian food.  What is it like?

Post # 8
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Everything will be wonderful and run smoothly I’m sure!! Don’t worry so much… we have such big expectations for the wedding day. And so do our parents and close friends I’m sure too. But I think most of the guests just want to witness some love, eat some food and have a good time. Hopefully no one will be put off if the food isn’t to their taste or they don’t like the music so much. It’ll be a fun time and everyone will enjoy themselves! Stay positive!

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