- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My wedding is June 14, 2013, in Utah. I have been having headaches, panic attacks, a hard time sleeping and nauseau. I promise i’m not pregnant! But my future mother-in-law is driving me crazy!! She is paying for the wedding, but still, i wish she would ask me rather then tell me what we are doing on our wedding day. In fact, one of my fiance’s cousins is getting married and i don’t know this girl. His mum asked her if it was okay to share our bridal shower, and doesnt bother asking me. She got more presents which was awkward, and i only had 2 friends show up cuz most of my friends live in St. George, not Salt Lake where we currently reside. We are having the wedding in St. George so my family/friends can make it. Anyway, she got upset about our engagment pics and wanted us to redo them, i put my foot down. i’m real worried about her controlling our life after we are married. His family is very mormon, though he is not and i am not and i don’t want my children growing into that religion, after i’ve seen how a lot of people treat you when you are not mormon here. So i’ve been stressing a lot and don’t know really how to handle this future mother-in-law being so controlling and not asking what i would like at my wedding but rather telling me what she wants on our special day. HELP PLEASE!