(Closed) Anxious, need a hug!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
666 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

((Hugs)) It’s getting close, I’m sure I’ll be nervous too when I am in your shoes.  Don’t stress out.  As for the caterer, since you have a contract, she shouldn’t be able to add fees you haven’t already agreed to.  Just be firm and have your contract in hand.  It will be fine.

Post # 4
1045 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2008

Maybe just get them to confirm it in writing?  May give you a bit more security than the verbal assurance.

Post # 5
298 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree with jhphi, it would be good to get this in writing from them. I’ve organised quite a few events and I’ve learned to follow my instincts if I get a bad feeling.

I’d drop them an email and say hi, just to confirm the conversation we just had, this is what we’re paying for in advance, this is what we’ll be billed for after the event, and the only extra charges for which we would be liable after the event are what would be incurred if we went over 4 hours.

Good luck!

Post # 6
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh yes, get everything in writing!  I’m sure I’ll be stressed too at that point.  In fact, I’m sure every bride/groom is stressed but that point!  Everything will get taken care of, try to enjoy!

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