Post # 1
Evening Bee’s, I just woke up from taking a nap (The excessive heat gives me a headache so I took some medicine, instead that made me sleepy). But I was quite disturbed at the dream I had.
I dreamt of my wedding to come, which included me walking into my room to put on my dress alone, only to find it ripped to shreds on the bed, relatives that were not invited showing up and screaming at me because I didn’t want them there, the groom and groomsmen no where to be found, more than half of the guest’s chairs were empty, dead rose petals down the aisle, and children screaming but I couldn’t see them.
I know I have so many worries about my wedding, and I think that maybe that caused me to dream of all of the worst case scenario’s. My Fiance and I are thrilled to marry eachother so I know it’s not a “warning” to myself. I just think I’m so stressed out that I’m starting to effect myself unconsciously too.
Have any of you dreamt about your wedding? Was it good or bad?
Post # 3
All the Time. Weird weird stuff, with zero reality basis. I think the weirdest one was that the venue had bleachers and we had to hurry up and clear them away after the wedding because there was a swim meet coming in after us.
Post # 4
Oh gosh I’ve been having dreams/nightmares about the wedding since we got engaged (and I haven’t even done a ton of planning yet!)
The two that stood out most from this week:
1) My dress came in super early and I was really excited and showing everyone (yes, literally carrying it around with me to show people lol) and I took it to my mom and she said, “Yes I know, I was with you when you bought it…but why is it a black dress?” And I looked down at it and realized that yes, it was the dress I ordered, but it was solid black with gold beading. What?! lol
2) We were at the wedding and it was on a mountain and the only way people could get around was to ride this miniature train thing. Nothing had been set up correctly and my parents came up to us right after the ceremony and told us they had to leave because they were just too busy…but we shouldn’t be upset because they had hired a juggling MC to entertain everyone at the reception. I was PISSED. So my Fiance told me it was ok, we could just leave early and go to the hotel and then redo the whole wedding in a couple of weeks.
I’m sure it’s only going to get worse as time goes on!
Post # 5
@MrsTimmy: Hahahahahaa that cracked me up!
Post # 6
Yes! I have “weddingmares” all the time and my wedding is over a year away! It is always something ridiculous, like the groom showing up w/o his pants on haha
Post # 7
just the other night i had a dream that my ex who used to be Fiance best friend arrived at our wedding, everyone at the chapel just thought great he is trying to mend bridges and show support to the groom, however in my dress as i walked down the aisle in my beautifull white dress he threw paint at me 🙁
sad thing is i wouldnt put it past him and have since asked in laws to not put a notice in the paper so he’ll never know exact date, time and place.
Post # 8
I’ve started to have weird dreams. The other night I dreamt that for the FIRST time ever in history it snowed in Minnesota in August and it just happened to be on our wedding day! It was ridiculous because we are having an outdoor wedding and I’ve been worrying about it being crazy hot but in my dream we didn’t know how to keep everyone warm!
Post # 9
At least once a week I have nightmares that things are not done for my wedding. Usually it is I forgot the boutineers, the groom is missing, and everyone is talking so loud that they don’t even realize our wedding is going on.
Post # 10
@GoldenBeauty2202012: I have Wedding nightmares every single night. I wake up more tired than when I went to sleep.
Worst so far was when my neighbour had a heart attack and I was helping him out and my lil bro punched one of my friends in the face and then puked on my dress. Not beyond the realms of possibility but I hope it goes better than that!
Post # 11
yep. I forgot to order my invitations and I had to have my wedding the university I attend. It was the worst thing ever…
Post # 12
I have lots, but i have a reoccuring one where i wake up the day after my wedding and don’t remember anything from the wedding…Ahhh!!
Post # 13
hahah oh wedding dreams are a kicker.. I’ve woken up in a cold sweat after dreaming about walking down the aisle 100% naked. WTF?!? I can barely walk around in a baithing suit. lol That dream comes often.
I’ve had others where no one shows up, or Fiance leaves me at the altar. 😛
Post # 14
- Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo
every single night. i kid you not.
before I bought the dress, every single dream would be the same: It’s the big day, and I’m still without a dress. I quickly search local stores for a decent dress but I can’t find one that fits. Or else I dream that my dress is at the dry cleaners, or some place real far away, and there’s no way to get at it in time for the wedding.
Now I have the dress and I don’t dream about that anymore. BUT it’s even worse! Ever night, I get stuff like:
I forgot to book the make up artist and I forgot how to apply make up myself
I forgot to send out invitations and nobody’s attended
Fiance forgot it was the wedding day
None of the guests can make it
Venue set the reception all wrong
I forgot to plan the music
The wedding was so boring everyone just left, and by the time it was time to cut the cake, even my Fiance had left!
Post # 15
dude, these are some realllly scary dreams! Mine isn’t so frightening, just weird in general!
I am walking down the aisle in a big church building, but up one of the side aisles, like I am just any other guest.
Except I am wearing this hideously huge ivory taffeta dress with humongous long sleeves, and covered all the way up to my neck with a high collar. So obviously I’m the bride.
I just plop down amongst the guests in the front, and Fiance is nowhere to be found, except it seems normal to me. I’m looking around wondering why everything isn’t getting started, when I see FI’s family sidling in late. Fiance is behind them all, just like it’s a regular Sunday at church, walking all casually like he doesn’t know he’s supposed to be married.
It felt like an arranged marriage or something, it was totally strange!!
Post # 16
Yep. Just recently I had a dream that my dj never showed up and we had no music at all for the entire reception and another dream where after the ceremony i went to change for some reason and found out my reception was over and I missed everything. I almost woke up in tears both times it felt so real lol. I just hope that having constant wedding nightmares of things going wrong mean that my actual wedding day will be perfect. 🙂