(Closed) Any bees here want sex more often than he does?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We’ve always been like this.  I don’t get it as often as I’d like!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

No – I wish!  He always wants it and I just don’t need it as often.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Yes! My Fiance was my first and so at first we were all over each other but I think all along I’ve wanted it more then he has, we’ve hit a patch at the moment where we only have sex when I initiate it which is getting rather annoying – I’ve expressed how i wish we would have sex more often but sadly nothing has changed. But I’d definitely say I have a bigger sexual appeitite then him.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Yes. Sigh. Unfortunately.

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’m guilty. My husband sometimes runs from me…Embarassed

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Some people just happen to have a greater sex drive than others. I am one of them. Every day if I had my way.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

ALL. THE. TIME.  I have never turned him down when he has initiated sex.  Except to tell him my period started- and it’s his decision to not have sex that week, not mine. But his schedule has been more demanding than mine.  And he has a bad knee but most of our favorite positions involve him having to put pressure on it.  So I can understand why we don’t have sex very often, and why he doesn’t try harder to make time.  But it’s still frustrating.  Something always seems to come up.  There were two separate time this week we planned on having sex and both times something came up.  We’re going on just about two months now without sex.  And over a month with no sexual activities at all.  And only once recently have we even gotten intimate at all- and by that I mean kissing not appropriate for the public eye and some roaming hands.  I love him for so much more than the physical aspects- that stuff is just the icing on the cake- but come on.  There are quite a few days coming up this week that might works.  I’m crossing my fingers!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yup… It was difficult in the first several weeks – I felt like I wasn’t attractive enough or something, like if I was prettier, he would want to have sex more often.  The truth is, we just have different sex drives πŸ™‚ Yes, I am the one that wants it more… BUT we’ve really worked on finding our happy medium πŸ™‚ And my Darling Husband is quite happy to have a wife with a high sex drive lol πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yes mam you are deff not the only one. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee

@cmvmph:  You’re not alone, I like it too πŸ˜‰  But usually that only happens when we’re short on time or I’m on my period and he’s not comfortable having sex anyway -_- The problem is, we don’t live together yet.  And we won’t until he gets his Bachelor’s degree because of stuff with his parents -_-  but yeah, it was sometime in March we last had sex.  I know in the middle of March, we fooled around a bit and like, last week we got some time alone and got to make out and stuff but that’s the extent of it -_-  now I know his schedule, he works an 8-5 job every day now that the semester is over, and I know my work schedule, so I see no reason why, between Sunday/ Monday/ Tuesday/ Thursday/ Friday, one of those days can’t work out! -_-

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Story of my life. Grr. Sometimes it makes me feel inadequate when I get turned down.

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