(Closed) Any Bees Planning on Wearing the Same E-Ring for the Long Haul? (No Upgrades)

posted 4 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Do you plan on upgrading someday?
    No, I'm in love with my engagement ring. : (420 votes)
    80 %
    Maybe, I may want to switch it up. : (60 votes)
    11 %
    Yes, I plan to upgrade. : (44 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 76
    8463 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    ladyvictoria:  I’m against upgrading the engagement ring, although I’m less attached to my wedding band. I LOVE it, but I picked it out where I didn’t choose the engagement ring (and he still nailed it!) The engagement ring, to me, represents a moment in time – when we got engaged. We’ll never be engaged again and when I look at it I remember my husband’s face as he proposed and I love that feeling. The wedding band represents our marriage, but not necessarily our wedding in my view. Our marriage will naturally change over time, so if I were to lose the wedding band I would replace it and not be as sad as if I were to lose my engagement ring. 

    Post # 77
    1703 posts
    Bumble bee


    Thank you so much!!! I absolutely love my ring and I love sharing complements with my fiance – I know he worked really hard picking out the stone/s and designing the ring…I am sure it makes him feel good to hear that someone besides me thinks it’s pretty! 🙂 

    Post # 78
    202 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I would never upgrade my ring set. My husband thoughtfully picked it out and I love it! I’m super sentimental though. I still where the ring he got me for our 1 year dating anniversary haha. We’ve been together for 8.5 years. 

    Post # 79
    2129 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    I don’t plan on ever changing my e-ring. I love it so much!

    Post # 80
    82 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2016



    I will never change my ring, I am in love with it!

    Post # 81
    3611 posts
    Sugar bee

    I love my engagement ring! I can’t stop staring at it even 9 months after my Fiance proposed to me. As of now, we don’t plan to change or upgrade it at any point…but I never say never! 😉

    Post # 82
    12468 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    I went with a timeless platinum solitaire. But settings can become fairly dated looking and if I had gone with something trendier, I can see eventually deciding to update. Personally, I am most attached to the stone, and would not consider changing that. 

    Post # 83
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    ladyvictoria:  I plan on keeping my set and maybe eventually adding another band.  You know for the big anniversaries (25 yrs etc…).  I love my set and hope to take really good care of it!

    Post # 85
    882 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    ladyvictoria:  I don’t believe in upgrading my engagement ring. It is very sentimental, and if I want something bigger I have a whole other hand for it. I love my little diamond (by weddingbee standards, it’s .31 ct) and beyond it being a beautiful gift from Darling Husband, it symbolizes a promise to take care of each other. I dont find issue with adding anniversary bands though  

    Post # 86
    693 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    i might upgrade just the setting to a better version of my double halo down the road. I like chunkier settings… the stone is absolutely forever though. my FI’s mom passed away when he was 13 and he put her stone in a new setting. and i know it means the world to him, and it means a lot to me too. and i do love my ring… 

    Post # 87
    3287 posts
    Sugar bee

    I am in the process of a downgrade. I decided I really like smaller rings.  

    Post # 88
    1025 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    I don’t have any plans to upgrade as I love my ring and the meaning and miles it has behind it (it was well travelled as he proposed on a vacation) but wouldn’t be opposed to it if Fiance wanted to buy me a bigger diamond on a milestone anniversary – but even then, I would really have to think about it!

    Here’s my forever set 🙂


    Post # 89
    26 posts
    • Wedding: April 2016 - JW Marriott Las Vegas Resort & Spa

    applecheeks:  I’m not sure of the demensions. I just know it’s an enlongated princess cut stone. Not sure how many carats. Im. Thinking a little over 2 carats? 

    Post # 90
    4238 posts
    Honey bee


    Going smaller still counts as changing it, so you don’t score a point.  😉 lol

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