Any bees that are now happily married…

posted 3 months ago in Emotional
Post # 76
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  • Wedding: March 2019

happyjuju :   mellicontent :  I can really relate to you two! I’m someone with a history of anxiety and depression and I overanalyze EVERYTHING. Especially when I get anxious.

I think there are some persons that are just wired differently than others. There are persons that are naturally worriers and they have doubts about a lot of things in their lives, especially transitions. So it is only natural for them to have more doubts when getting married than others. And it’s healthy to doubt and ask yourself if you’re making the right choice, only like this you can react to yourself constantly developing and changing. I see so many couples around me that when there is a hard time presenting itself, they shy away and break up, because they think they can optimize. Of course one shouldn’t just settle when you’re not happy, but in this generation I see so little commitment to compromise or to go through difficult times with another person, even if it means that you’re affected as well. So having doubts or second thoughts is like a red flag which in my eyes shouldn’t be the case.

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