(Closed) Any Bees that don't drive?

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I don’t. I finally got my license last year after a lot of pushing from friends and family, but I don’t own a car and have only driven with my license maybe 2-3 times since I got it. I really just don’t like driving and I’m not very good at it, so I figure why put myself and others at risk?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Also, I’ve got pretty severe anxiety which has heightened my fear of driving. I’m afraid I’ll have a panic attack while on the road :/

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

I don’t have my driver’s license yet, only have a learner’s and it expired for the second time a few months ago. I got my learner’s when I was 16.5 and now am 22 and a half. And due to my mental health I will not be doing any driving for several months more at least. You are not alone!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

@MissKit: I passed when I was 17 but didn’t drive again until I was 23. My Fiance was re-teaching me because he wants that I can drive when we have kids for the school run etc but the truth is I’m scared when I drive in the city. I totally overthink everything 🙁 I do however love cruising out in the countryside with music blaring haha!

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MissKit:  I will be working on getting my license this summer! I’m originally from a big city with buses, trains, subways and plenty of public transportation, so I never had a need for one at home. Then I went away to college and lived on campus and still didn’t need one. Then I met Fiance and we moved to his podunk little country town where we now live and I’m in big trouble 🙂 I work from home so it hasn’t been a major inconvenience yet but I can’t wait to get my own license and have a car!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Me! I have my learners but I’m a very anxious driver, so I never went for my full license. I drive around our farm and own a car, but I just HATE driving on the road.

I have a goal to change that this year though! I have my first driving lesson with an instructor in a little over a week.

I live an hour away from the nearest town and am going to enrol in a course which will give me a new employment opportunity, which means I’ll need to drive.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have been driving since I was 16, but I hate it.  I don’t like the wastefulness of it and wish I could get by without a car.  When I lived in Philadelphia, I did not have a car from 2006 to 2011.  IT WAS AWESOME and so much cheaper.  

Now that I live in a different area, there aren’t really bike paths or anything so it’s really unsafe to ride a bike, but I rode my bike for a while when we were here and I did not have a car, and I want to start that up again.

 

If you live in an area where you cannot get around without a car, you should get over your fear so you’re not dependent on someone else.  

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Currently I am saving up to get a car. I had one, but it finally has kicked the bucket. So for the last year I have been just riding my bike to work and the Fiance takes me on rainy days. So far it is working out okay, but I do miss the independence of having my own ride. I also have a lot of anxiety and this also manifests in driving.

Post # 12
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638 posts
Busy bee

@MissKit:  Nope. I’m 24, take the subway every day and I’m ever so slowly getting back into the habit of driving. I’m not afraid, it’s just none of my friends have cars! I have to go visit my parents in the suburbs if I want to practice.

Post # 13
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Worker bee

Wow it’s amazing to find others like me. I do not have a license but I have practice and experience a lot of anxiety behind it. My fear comes from being in a accident while busting family. I get asked all the time when will you get a car, when will you drive. I just wish they would mind their business.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I have my licence. But I HATE driving. I rarely do it, and honestly it’s only to please others (people never stop bugging me about it). I only have my g2 (g1, g2, then g in Canada) but I have to get my full g by November which involves highway driving. Ugh. 

I agree with you ladies though. The constant comments get are SO annoying. Even if people just “joke” about it, it really pisses me off. I’m seriously anxious about driving, and people don’t understand how badly I wish I could just get in a car and drive without being scared. It’s nice to know that there are others like me out there!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My mom is a really fearful driver and I always wonder why she doesn’t move to a bigger city where she wouldn’t have to drive ever! As it is now, she experiences unneccesary levels of stress and embarassment about her fears. She is not open to any kind of cognitive-behavioral treatment that help her. 

 

I am not afraid to drive but I don’t drive often because almost every place I need to go where I live can be reached via walking, biking, or the bus. It’s really quite normal in many cities not to own a car at all!

 

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