(Closed) Any bees with Paramedic FI’s?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Fiance is an EMT, and he had a gorgeous partner at one time. She even modeled at one point. I was slightly concerned, too, but then I met her at a function and I felt instantly better. You know how some girls have a nice, down-to-earth non-FI-stealing vibe? She totally has it. 

It’s a little weird knowing that they spent so many hours together, but I didn’t worry at all once I met her. Is your Fiance stationed at a fire station? If he is, maybe you can invent some sort of function to invite a group over and get to know her. You definitely have my sympathy! It’s an odd situation to be sure.

Post # 4
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ahhh I understand. I’ve never dealt with it but it would bug me too. So I have no advice, really, but I have sympathy! ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m sorry because that would be suuper annoying!

Post # 6
Member
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Time to set up a spring barbeque! Hopefully you’ll feel better. I think most girls aren’t crappy man thiefs, so the odds are definitely in your favor, lol!

Post # 8
Bee
979 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

Mr. CP is a male nurse, and most of the other nurses he works with are women. He’s friends with some really cute girls… and I can’t say I’m the jealous type, so it’s never bothered me. I’m sure there are lots of guys out there who are partnered with/coworkers with hot chicks… and hopefully it will never be an issue! I do like to meet his coworkers, and we all get along great. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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535 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Aww, I completely get where you’re coming from.  Fiance is an elementary school teacher (currently finishing school- interning in 2nd Grade), so as you can imagine, he is one of THREE male teachers at his school.  I was a tad worried at first (hey, I’m a preschool teacher and 95% of the girls I work with are cute and young lol), but then I heard about how he talked about me (in a good way, obviously) alllll the time.  I went to a school function with him a few weeks ago and even the young teachers were asking about the wedding, telling him he was a lucky guy, etc.  The females who I suppose I have for competition are the 8 year old girls who bat their eyelashes and say “heeeeey Mr. ___” lol. 

I understand- but like PP’s have said, most girls aren’t the “fiance stealin'” type ๐Ÿ™‚  I’m sure all will be fine after you have a chance to meet them!

Post # 10
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2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@FutureMrsMcDermott:  Yes!  It’s hard, because there aren’t many other professions where they spend all day with someone in pretty close quarters.

At his last company, he was usually partnered with a girl a few years younger than us who was well known for dating everyone in town. 

I didn’t worry about it too much.  He never once seemed interested, and though I know he loves me more than anything… it IS weird knowing he’s spending 24 hour shifts in a bus or the station with another woman.

One night a few of us went out for drinks and she came.  I was nice and my usual funny self.  She left after about 20 minutes.  According to some of the guys afterwards – she felt intimidated by me because she wasn’t used to having smart, funny women around. 

It’s tough, so I know what you mean ๐Ÿ™‚  Good luck!!!

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