- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
maybe ‘worry’ isn’t the right word. even though i know me and FI have a great relationship, i always think of things we can improve in our relationship or i worry that maybe things can always be ‘better’. for example, maybe we can work on communicating a little better, maybe compromise a little more, etc. sometimes nothing really spurs this on…i sometimes come to him and bring up something that i wonder if we should work on and he always just smiles, listens to me and tells me that of course we can always work on those things but everything is going fine. i guess it’s because i tend to over-analyze and sometimes i over-think. but sometimes i feel like my FI never worries about ANYTHING in our relationship! like, unless we are downright fighting…he never really seems to have any concerns or worries. he literally thinks everything is peachy unless we are fighting-fighting. sometimes i’m really thankful for this but other times i’m like, ‘is there something wrong?’…
but maybe i’m just a little paranoid because in my past relationships, i constantly had bad issues going on. and like i said, i’m guilty of being a little over-analytical and i over-think sometimes!
but does anyone else’s FI do this? just never really seems to be worried or concerned about any issues within the relationship unless the issue is very obvious?? like in their eyes, everything is always pretty good? should i just feel thankful and fortunate?
i hope this doesn’t sound too silly… :/