(Closed) Any Day Club – June Edition!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 181
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Newbee

I’m definitely thinking July now!  I highly doubt it’s June, since our weekends are pretty much booked up.  But I know it’s before my birthday (August 22)!  Quite the time lapse…

Post # 183
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Helper bee

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futuremrss2016:  sorry to hear this wasn’t the weekend, surely it’s coming very soon from the sounds of it though! What an awesome change with the ring, there is nothing better than seeing your children being accepted and loved by a man who isn’t biologically related. I have two sons from a previous marriage and SO has taken them in, it’s such a special thing! 

Congrats to our newly engaged no longer waiting bees!!! 

Post # 184
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

SO and I got something addressed to SO & Me HisLastName and then the same day at his dad’s father’s day dinner his dad asks if we’re getting married. So clearly I wasnt having a great day since that kind of stuff gets under my skin. So I decided it was time to have a conversation. Well, I found out he hasn’t even picked out a ring yet (In May he told me h had one picked out and it took 3 weeks to get it and we were definitely getting engaged this Summer.) So definitely not June or even July. He did admit he should have proposed a year ago when we moved in together, or in February when I said I would move with him for a new job, or in March when we bought a house together or 2 weekends ago when we went on our “big summer trip”. He’s already procrastinated so much we had to give up the date we had picked a year ago since my cousin is getting married the weekend before on the east coast. 

Post # 185
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2017

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niknak88:  that’s funny, my boyfriend’s birthday is August 22nd also and I asked him the other day if he would have a girlfriend or a fiancee’ on his birthday (LOL) and he said I would be his fiancee’. So I’m (im)patiently waiting. 

Post # 186
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Helper bee

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justkeepswimming:  what an exciting proposal!  It sounds like a dream come true.   Congrats!

Post # 187
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

My SO asked for my hand from my dad over a year ago….and just recently asked me again for details about my ring size and what I like.  I know for a fact that shortly after he got the ring details from me, he went ring shopping but I am unsure if he has bought anything.  We are going away for a mini vacation this weekend and I am really trying not to get my hopes up.  It has been a long time since we have taken a vacation together and it would be a fabulous opportunity to pop the question, but I just don’t know what the chances are.

Post # 188
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Helper bee

Well ladies, I’m once again out for another month. I kinda had a feeling it would be the case even though he promised June. He told me tonight it wouldn’t be happening and he became upset with me when I told him I’d already known. Sigh. Fortunately, there’s still a little more of June left for you other any day nows! Can’t wait to see some more engagements go down this month!

Post # 190
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Newbee

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Jessica8102217:  Aww, that’s cute!!  I had imagined him proposing on his birthday before, with a line similar to “the best birthday gift I could ask for would be your hand.”  Maybe he’ll do that for you!!

I’d be so good at proposals!

I was originally thinking it would be July 4th, since that’s my grandparents’ anniversary and it can be romantic with the fireworks, etc… but I’m getting the feeling it will be later in July.  I think it’s eating him up that he can’t talk to me about it.  We are horrible at keeping secrets from each other (holiday gifts, etc…).

Post # 191
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Worker bee

He took me for a late night stroll around the city this weekend. The weather was lovely, it was very romantic.  We came across this big nicely lit bridge and I was thinking “this is it!” and nothing. lol smh 

Post # 192
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Blushing bee

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bombpeonies:  I totally know the feeling! My SO and I had a date night in NYC this past friday and went all these romantic places and I was sure it was going to happen and then he tells me its not. We still had a nice time but it was so frustrating to get my hopes up for nothing.

Post # 193
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Blushing bee

 

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bombpeonies:  I have had a few of those moments too. We have done a few romantic things and I think this is it! And then nothing. So now I just don’t think about it.  When it does happen it will probably be the least romantic time, like when I am sitting on the toilet or something! 

I haven’t said much to my SO about the proposal because I want things to happen naturally, well as naturally as they can when he knows how much I want to be engaged. Especially  after my emotional outburst at the beginning of the month.

this week though,  I have been sneaking to the ring hiding spot and trying it on and I don’t even feel that bad. At first I avoided it, then I tried it on a couple times then decided I wanted to forgot what it looked like so it would be surprising again so I left it, but this week I am like f it! I should probably stop though or I might get too attached to it when I can’t wear it yet.

Post # 194
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Helper bee

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michyd:  I’m totally with you! I plan on spending a little time focusing on me these next few weeks- more gym time, getting a mani pedi, drag my friends to the beach… Helps keep me positive and distracted by what isn’t happening and letting doubts creep in. 

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