(Closed) Any help with Kinky “spice it up” ideas?!?!

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

candle wax.  i was so adverse to trying it b/c i am not keen on fire/thought it’d be too hot, but it was “hot” in an awesome way!  

also, maybe you can take turns planning out the whole evening.  you pick what he wears, where you go, what you do, etc.  including after-hours.  then in a few weeks, it’s his turn.  

try getting out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom.  couch/tables/etc will get you out of a rut.  hotels?  awesome for loud messy sex (love not having to clean up)!  camping is great for this too, although this is weather dependent.

good luck πŸ˜‰

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Why don’t you two go shopping together at the naughty store.  Make it an adventure, I can almost promise you that he would totally get a charge out of it and then you two can find out together what “spice” works for the two of you as a couple.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My Darling Husband and I were talking the other day about role playing after seeing something on tv about it. The announcer on tv said the couple should go out without each other, but meet up at a club/bar as strangers. Then meet up with your SO and pretend that you’re having an affair.

We thought this sounded kinky…but we both couldn’t get past the “cheating” idea. So, what we plan on doing is reliving the night we met. (we met at a bar..I know *puke*) The night we met, we stayed up literally ALL night talking and making out. It was an amazing night/morning πŸ™‚ and I love the idea of reliving it.

Good luck!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Self identified prude here – what in g-d’s name is Wasted Anal?

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@CanAmBride: I think it means partaking in the “other” hole when under the influence of alcohol πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MeganTacky2247: That’s the good thing about the roll playing I was talking about. Role playing the first night you met, or the first time you were intimate. There really isn’t a way you cant keep character because it is YOU! lol

If you do something a little less ‘serious’ and just fun…it probably wouldn’t be hard at all. (no pun intended haha) If you can dress up in a santa skirt and be videotaped…you CAN role play! LOL

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MeganTacky2247: I totally understand. There is more responsibility. But, it’s a good responsibility. Just think, yall have your whole lives to try new things. Without sounding real corny, it’s actually a very beautiful thing. *barf* lol…but I’m looking forward to our adventures together…outside and inside the bedroom πŸ˜‰

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@tksjewelry: This! 

Such a great idea , then you can see what both of you are into and being in there is almost foreplay … by the time you get home you will be raring to try out your new goodies Wink

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

So candle wax….where are you “spilling/melting it” it?

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@spaneshal:Thanks! Never heard that term before!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Eva Peron: melting/dripping candle wax on the stomach, breasts, thighs.  the higher you hold the candle from the body, the cooler it is (has more time to dry on the way down); the closer, the hotter.  SO blind folded me the first time (so that i wouldn’t be nervous watching it), and it was so erotic.  if you are sensitive to touch, you’ll probably like it.  the feeling of the wax drying pulls at your skin (not in a bad way) and is like thousand of tiny fingers touching you. peeling it off is kinda fun, too (i was that kid in class that put glue on their hands and peeled it off).  i find it works better if the area is relatively hair-free (less pulling when you take the wax off), btw.

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