(Closed) Any ideas on how to ask my wedding party?

posted 6 years ago in DIY
Post # 3
1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My Fiance just called his guys up and asked them. I asked my girls in person (although I may have texted one and I am so embarrassed by that!!). His best man is my brother and he sent him an engraved pocketknife with a nice printed card (he’s a graphic designer) to ask him. His sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor. I sent her a ring in the color of the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses that I wanted (for me, my grandmother makes jewelry so she got lucky with a real sapphire ring, but I think any nice ring could work). I included a card that said, “He popped the question, now it’s my turn- Will you be my Maid Of Honor?”

Post # 6
36 posts
  • Wedding: October 2014

I made bridesmaid boxes – i actually just posted them on here!! Here is what was in them..


Underneath says “Will you be my bridesmaid?” written on nice cardstock I put together 🙂

My Fiance got a bottle of his guys fav booze and I made up tags saying “Groomsmen?” and he is giving them out to his boys.

Post # 7
1024 posts
Bumble bee

I proposed to my maids with ring pops! You can get creative with how you do these – Like for one bridesmaid, I had a server surprise her by bringing it out with her food at a lunch date. I got down on one knee for another. You can send them on a scavenger hunt for it and have a card with the question “Will you be my ______?” stored with it… lots of options! If you think of it like a proposal you can get creative!

Darling Husband took care of his side of the wedding party – I think he just asked them/said it would mean a lot.


Post # 9
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We had an enagagement party where everyone was invited. We took a moment to step away with each of them individually and ask them if they’d do us the honour of being in our wedding party (I asked my girls and my fiance asked all this guys).

Post # 10
509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wrote a poem and sent it to each one with a piece of chalk; the end of the poem instructed them to text me with an “I do” if they accepted. A few days later I started getting the picture texts of “I do’s” written in chalk on the ground! 🙂

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