Any ladies find true love and a partner after 30 or a long period of singledom?

posted 2 months ago in 30 Something
Post # 16
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Blushing bee

I met my bf (and I think by Xmas my fiancé,lol) when I was 27 after 4 years of an emotionally abusive relationship, feeling dead inside and very very stuck.  We worked together at a restaurant, and we became friends.  He never made a move on me and I felt so much respect.  So when my current bf said “get the fuck out” for the millionth time, I did!  My now bf had an extra bedroom with a separate bathroom and offered it to me.  We worked different hours for awhile so I got so much alone time in this somewhat spacious apartment, and fell head over heels with my current guy as we took it very slow. I love his family.  I love our life.  He was 36 when I moved in.  We tentatively want a 2020 wedding (a small elopement) and he will be 40 and I’ll be 32. 

Post # 17
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117 posts
Blushing bee

I was 29 when I met my fiancé after being single for about 2.5 years.  My previous relationship lasted for 4 years and was toxic/emotionally unhealthy.  I went on a long string of meeting crappy guys and finally started focusing on myself and taking care of my own mental health. Once I did that, I met my wonderful fiancé!  I truly believe I wouldn’t have ended up with him had I not taken the time to care for myself and go to therapy.  My relationship with my fiancé is very healthy and happy.  Take time for yourself and the right person will come along!  

 

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