(Closed) Any ladies having their BM wear a certain hairstyle?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
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Honey bee

Mine asked me and 4 of the 5 are choosing to get it done with me by the stylist, but I told them whatever they want. There hair is such different textures that I am not sure I could pick something and it would work for everyone.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope, I don’t care how they wear their hair, because 2 have short and 1 has long hair as long as they look nice that day that is all that matters to me.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I told them to wear it however they wanted. I went to a wedding where the bridesmaids all wore their hair differntly, but they each had a braid in it somewhere, I thought it was really cute.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope, and I never intended to.

Any wedding I have ever been in the bride has always let the BMs choose their hairstyle.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I told my 3 girls they could do anything they wanted as long as it wasn’t the exact same as mine. My hair was half up. One bridesmaid wore her hair totally down and and curly, one wore her hair up in a french twist, and one wore her hair up in a curly updo. I really wanted them all to be happy with their appearance and I didn’t feel like it was important for them to match at all. (of course they also had non-matching bridesmaids gowns and shoes so I guess I was super anti-match haha)

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Nope, I didn’t care what they did. One wore it down and the other had a side ponytail/sorta braided.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I actually had a Bridesmaid or Best Man ask me that this weekend too.  I honestly don’t care how they wear their hair and wonder how many brides do.

Although I do have a friend who’s in a wedding this year that said the bride insisted that all the BM’s wear their hair in a side pony tail.  Now maybe it’s b/c I’m very anti-side pony tail but I thought this was strange.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I haven’t thought about it yet.  I was recently in a wedding where the bride just asked us all to have our hair done half up, half down, but in any style we wanted.  I thought that was a really nice way to give us all a unifying look but also let us do our hair in a way that looked good on us.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I want my BMs to wear they hair up in a bun, cos I’m giving them a hair accessory that compliments a bun, but they can do anything they want to the front of their hair.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I told my girls (there are only 2 of them) to wear their hair however they want it. I don’t want them to look too much the same. My one Bridesmaid or Best Man even asked me how long she should keep her hair! I had to laugh because I’m very laid back and not someone who demands things like telling my BM’s to grow their hair out, or wear it a certain way. Whatever makes them happy:)

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Two of my girls are planning on having very short hair for the wedding, and one will have very, very long hair. I’m going to do a half-up style, and I’m thinking about just asking the Bridesmaid or Best Man with really long hair to do a cute side-braid. I don’t want to be a control freak, but I don’t want my BMs to have the same hairstyle as me!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

This has come up for me as well.  I am doing my hair half up myself.  I told them each to do as they please but keep in mind that it is a backyard pig roast type event.  I feel like a super fancy up-do might look out of place.

One of my BM’s did comment that she’d been to a wedding where some BM’s had fancy schmancy hair while others had every-day do’s and it looked a little off. 

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I do agree that if the Bms just do what they want some will be ultra fancy and others wont bother and it wont look right

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