(Closed) Any ladies think their groom will cry during the ceremony???

posted 11 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 47
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2018

My fiance says he wont cry infront of everyone, but i secretly hope he does…i think he might cause whenever i cry he gets upset, and i have a feeling im going to cry, good tears, on our wedding day.

Post # 48
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My fiance will probably get misty eyed.  I’ve seen it before, anytime a christian song really moves/touches him.  So I think he will during the ceremony too.  Me on the other hand, I definately will.  Heck I cry at Hallmark commercials!  So I will carry a handkerchief from my mom (my something borrowed) for just that occasion.

Post # 49
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Sugar bee

I secretly hope he does. I also secretly hope I do because he was teasng me at my best friend’S wedding when I was the only dry eyed Bridesmaid or Best Man. I’m just not a crier except for one week a month when I get overly emotional and have been known to cry with little instigation and freak people out.

Post # 50
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

my Fiance will probably cry a little bit…but I’m not really the crying type unless I’m about to start my period :/ Thank God that I won’t be PMSing on my wedding day (I don’t think…)!

My future father in law, however, will be sobbing the whole way through.  He’s a wonderful and sweet man…who cries at everything! 

Post # 51
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I will definitely cry – do you know how I’m so sure of that? Because I started tearing up thinking about it while reading these posts! I bawl at every wedding I go to…I can’t be near anyone crying without crying too.

I wouldn’t be surprised if he shed a manly tear or two, but I don’t think he would out and out cry (not in front of everyone, but we will see each other before the ceremony, so maybe then?)

One of my best friends just got married and was afraid she’d cry, but her new husband cried more than any of us ladies (who are all wedding-criers!). It was really sweet to see him that emotional when she walked down the aisle – I think it made the ceremony even more special than it would have been with a dry-eyed groom.

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My FH says he will cry.  I’ve seen him do it.  I love the idea.  It’s so sweet.

However at the same time I might get a little embarassed, especially if I weren’t crying with him.  It’s like two sides of me — thrilled that I’ve got a sensitive guy but also kinda weirded out by it, in a good way tho.

If he cries try to just sit with your feelings and be aware that you feel embarrassed.  Remind yourself how great it is to have a guy who will cry, not all men can do that.  Also, maybe if while he’s crying you can try to put yourself in his shoes, try to empathize with him if you can — that might help you feel less embarassed. you know, you won’t be focusing on your embarassment but on how he’s feeling. 

Post # 54
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2022

I honestly think we both will laugh, keeps me from getting nervous

Post # 55
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Honestly not too sure if he will or not.. I will most likely tear up yes… I kind of hope he does a bit  show his sensitive side…

Post # 56
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Being that I bawled like a baby (with happiness) when he proposed to me, which in turn lead him to cry – I bet we’ll both cry for the real deal!

Post # 57
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Ha, I hoped he would cry or show some emotion. He smiled huge when I got to him and wiped my tears. When we were saying our vows, he was shaking and tearing up. Best moment ever.

Post # 58
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m not a crier either, but if my Fiance starts I am sure to loose it!

Post # 59
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m about 100% sure he will cry.  he’s a huge softie.  Unfortunately, if he starts crying, that means I’m going to start as well…so I sort of hope he doesnt haha

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