(Closed) Any Lawyer Bees Draft Their Own Prenup?

posted 5 years ago in Legal
Post # 3
30 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

I am a trusts and estates attorney and had someone else draft it. It was worth it to me to have her deal with my husband’s attorney about sensitive issues so we didn’t have to argue. Also, it was one less thing for me to deal with before the wedding. 




For what it is worth, the recitals usually provide that you have each had independent counsel. You might check your state’s domestic relations law to see if you need to insert a waiver of independent counsel in the agreement if you end up divorcing. Inadequate representation etc. could be grounds on your end for invalidating a prenup. 


Post # 4
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Unless you cannot afford to hire someone, I would not do it yourself.  It’s a legal document but also very personal, and it could affect your relationship.  

Post # 5
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Overjoyed:  I did it myself….

but in order to avoid problems I had a collegue  present it to him. He signed it period . I have family estate it all stays mine. And he is the one with the big income…basicly what is mine stays mine what we buy together is halft mine if he cheats…80% is mine.  muahahahahah


Post # 6
885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Am I the only one who did not draft one?  Were you all independently wealthy prior to marriage?  

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