- 9 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
This is one of the most WTF things i have ever read on the Bee. Ever. Carry on.
I am sorry to say but this is one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this site. And trust me we get our share of ill-informed comments here. Yes, legal advice can only come from a lawyer. If you wanted to vent or get blind support on your post, you should have said so in your OP. Instead you said you wanted legal advice. The lawyers on the board disclaimed their advice as legal advice but were more than willing to give you experiential advice that let you know about the potential advantages of your choices. People also listed the disadvantages as well. You seem to have gotten extremely irritated about people providing you with complete experiential information. If you want one-sided advice, talk to yourself. People were only trying to help you here. Respect that and you may have a more pleasant time on the bee.
Someone thought this was mean so I will delete. But please, come to me and this thread with some thoughtfulness and intelligence.
I just wish people would get a hobby instead of fighting on this thread. I’m over it. I never said I had a problem with ALL the advice I got on here. I’m sorry you think my comment is dumb, that’s your opinion and your entitled to it. As far as seeking legal advice from someone who is not a lawyer…that can totally be done. Someone who has taken the steps that i’m about to take, a mom that went through it, or a friend of mine who actually works at a attorney general office who works with people EVERYDAY! She knows which steps to take. I think you looked WAY into my comment, maybe thinking I meant that I didn’t need a lawyer at all for legal advice. That’s not at ALL what I meant. I’m just saying that people can help… I don’t understand at all why everyone is making such a big deal about this. I came on here for help, not drama. If you don’t like my opinions, keep your rude comments to yourself. Seriously, I have enough drama alone with my ex, I dont need it w/ some random layer on wedding wire that needs a hobby. This is such a joke.
And this was my post:
Any LAWYERS OUT THERE?? Or anyone that can help?
ANYONE!!…meaning anyone…that means anyone, not just a lawyer
As far as seeking legal advice from someone who is not a lawyer…that can totally be done.
NO! Legal advice comes from a lawyer. Advice comes from lay people. You are not precise in your writing and that is why I am coming down on you. You are perpetuating ridiculousness and I don’t want misinformation out there.
And I am flagging your comment as a personal attack. Honey I have hobbies. Weddingbee is one of them. Intelligent conversation is another.
NOTE: I do not ever want this community to turn into another unwelcoming message board. And I never want to discourage new posters from posting/commenting. I do think that newer posters should, however, review and seek out assistance on what is appropriate here.
Not certain people just lawyers with HUGE egos… which is only 5% of the people on this post. Everyone else I had no problem with, and enjoyed reading their stores, which helped me to see both sides. You were nice at first, but I dont know what the heck happend to you since yesterday! You are taking this WAY too seriously, and the comments above NEVER involved you, therefore there was no need for your opinion. The whole two pages were between rubies and Kay. And I have a huge problem when some lawyer on here, tells me she doesn’t think I should have full custody of my son. That’s not a wrong statement? Especially coming from a lawyer who knows very little about my situation.
"sole legal and physical custody can allow for visitation (or sometimes will restrict all visitation until the delinquent parent can get his/her act together). Termination of parental rights means you are not my child anymore. Another person can adopt you. I have no say in your life."
So... me speaking again...basically, termination is much harder to get, even with our situations (drugs, etc)... I don't know but it might be a step-by-step process for you and your Fiance.
I wish the best for all of you!! Definitely talk to a lawyer about it...
YOU DONT GET IT BECAUSE THE COMMENT WAS MADE BY ANOTHER LAWYER!!! ON THIS PAGE, NOT THE FIRST. YOU DON’T GET IT BECAUSE IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU! IT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE BECAUSE YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE JUST READ MY COMMENTS INSTEAD OF EVERYONE’S COMMENTS ON PAGE2.
@Rubies: You can talk to a lawyer and try to have the rights terminated, but I am not sure you will get it, nor do I, personally, think you should.
THAT’S WHAT WAS SAID, AND WAS WRONG.
PS You’d have to point to other specific things she said that were rude if you want to continue this.
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