(Closed) Any newlyweds feel pressured to get preggo?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Any newlyweds feeling the pressure or being asked all the time....are you pregnant?
    Yes, I am "really" feeling the pressure! : (17 votes)
    18 %
    Somewhat, but it doesn't bother me : (48 votes)
    52 %
    Never, they know better than ask me... No Kids Allowed : (17 votes)
    18 %
    Yes, but all in good fun. : (11 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 17
    6065 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    People mention it to us quite often. Sometimes we just smile and nod, and sometimes we make the comment that we’d like to wait a year.


    Post # 19
    1766 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    @MuchGreater:  None of her business, I agree.  But she was the waitress at the place we were currently eating at, and you don’t PO the people who serve your food, lol! I ordered a couple of alcoholic drinks instead.

    Post # 20
    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    @hisgoosiegirl:  Oh my goodness I will set them straght for you. I would definately have Darling Husband seriously tell them to drop it and you will let them know when you have news to share. I am pretty private so I have really set boundries about certain parts of our life (kids, parenting,money) that is really off limits unless we ask for an opinion and it took a really long time for DH’s family to get that-his grandparents still over step boundries, but not on such important things.

    Post # 26
    5091 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We’ve gotten a few questions, but mostly from people who are just oblivious and dumb and don’t care either way, and we know it.  I definitely haven’t felt any sort of pressure, especially not from any real friends/family.

    That being said, we’ve only been married three weeks.  I’m sure we’ll hear the questions soon enough.

    Post # 27
    13564 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    My husband’s family has been asking like crazy. We’ve only been married for six months! We’re easily five years away from even considering kids, so I have a feeling it’s not going to stop anytime soon.

    Post # 29
    762 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Luckily, we haven’t received any pressure from our families. I have only been asked by 1 person, a friend, and I wasn’t annoyed by it either. I guess if Darling Husband and I were getting tons of pressure from our families, then I probably would be annoyed. So far, things have been low key

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