(Closed) Any One Speak "Weird Man" / Need Translation.

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

I read that as he would object during the ceremony. You’re so much better off not having him. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Just forget about him lol  I wouldnt want him coming to my wedding…I would never ask him about it again lol  Go on as if he said no. Sounds like a nut case to me

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

But just curious, sounds like he thinks theres somthing you did that your Fiance doesnt know about? lol like  I would kind of read that as if you cheated on your Fiance and this guy knows about it or something

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That was a d#ck move on that guys part.  Sounds to me like he may be projecting some of his own personal issues onto you and your FHs relationship.  Ignore him.  If it were me, I would uninvite as it sounds like he is going to “object”. 

Sorry you have to deal with this. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That is so strange. Sounds like he’s jealous. You are probably better off not having him there. Sounds like he is crazy enough to actually object, and that’s one wedding memory I’m sure you’d rather live without.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Better off not having him there.  To be honest, it is better off that he is being so blunt about his feelings for you and your marriage than being a snake about it and making a scene at your wedding.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@armychica06:  You don’t want this guy there… or in your lives, for that matter. Anyway, why doesn’t he think your wedding/marriage will be “real?”

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I interpret his reply as a “no” for the RSVP.

Whatever his reasons, it seems that he doesn’t want to have anything to do with you. Unfriend him on facebook and move on.  Your Fiance may continue to be friends with him, but that’s his business. 

I do wonder if there’s something about your Fiance that he knows, however.  Or he’s crazy.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

I will always be cordial and respectful to you

 

I wouldn’t call that message cordial or respectful. If he doesn’t want to come, I wouldn’t force him. He seems more than a little bit up his own arse, quite frankly, and no great loss.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

He sounds a bit nuts to me.  I think you are better off without him around your wedding.

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