(Closed) any other Bees feeling lost?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@HisNightOwl2014:  I’m feeling good πŸ™‚ I do believe planning a wedding can be a little stressful, and its probably a good idea to take a break. Focus on making yourself happy πŸ™‚

Good job on fixing your credit! We aren’t using, don’t have any credit cards, we are actually waiting for our tax returns to start buying everything! Some people might call us ‘crazy’ but thats how we are gonna do it!

I was gonna buy a dress this weekend at a local boutique, (their dresses are on sale), I wanted to take advantage of the opportunity, but living paycheck to paycheck, I can’t see myself spending $$$ and struggling this next week. I’ll just have to wait. And we don’t have expensive taste at all! I’m a total thrift shop gal πŸ™‚

Looks like your Fiance is picking up on your feelings so I think its a good idea to focus on your happiness πŸ™‚ Good luck to you and I hope things get better πŸ™‚


Post # 4
1161 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Hey lady πŸ™‚ 

I think you need to take a step back and not do much wedding planning for a little while. Just focus on you and your fiance and try to think of a vision and goal for your wedding. Before you do any more planning you should decide what you want so you have some direction. There are a lot of cool wedding planning books that are fun to use and help organize all your thoughts so you can work towards achieving your vision. Without something like that you may feel overwhelmed. You still have almost a year and a half before the big day and have plenty of time to look for a dress. I believe mine only took 5 months to come in. Don’t stress yourself out or rush into purchases you may regret. Take your time with every decision as you aren’t really pressed for time.

Wish you all the best πŸ™‚ 

Post # 5
42 posts
  • Wedding: December 2012

You are a loooonnnngggg way away from your wedding date.  I waited until 2 months before the wedding to get my dress, just tell yourself that you have time and take a deep breath.

And honestly, if you don’t enjoy doing it, then don’t!  It’s your wedding and you should enjoy it. 

Post # 7
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I felt extremely lost during my wedding planning.  It was so frustrating and emotional for me.  Luckily, Mother-In-Law took care of the majority of it.  It turned out completely beautiful.  Everyone becomes more and more helpful with ideas and such too the closer to the date.  Best of luck though.  You’ll look beautiful, everything will be amazing, and it will be special when your day finally arrives.  =)

Post # 8
2866 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

You are so far away from your wedding, I’d give it a break until the New Year at least. You will get burned out and it sounds like that’s how you are right now. The wedding planning will still be there when you are ready and closer to the date!

Post # 9
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@HisNightOwl2014:  Take a break – you have a long time before the wedding.

Post # 10
18 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

Ooohh, I’m so sorry for you. I had this problem at the beginning, I asked a few people what they think about this and that. I also told FI’s aunt and brother about the wedding dress, they went against it straightaway. I told them about the song, they also disagree, and so on. 

My suggestion is to listen to their opinion, but make your own decision. You will be wearing the dress, not them. It’s your wedding (and your FI’s), so do whatever you two want to do.

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