(Closed) Any other bees having trouble making up their minds?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

EVERYTHING!!!! I go back and forth with everything!  It drives me crazy.  It’s just the kind of person I am, I think.  The only thing that I have made a solid, confident decision on is my ceremony venue.  But, I understand how you feel … it’s honestly draining!  🙁

Post # 4
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1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

At first I really did.  I was overloaded with inspiration.  It got easier as I committed to things.  You just have to make one decision, and go from there. 

Bear in mind that there will ALWAYS be more ideas, more inspirations.  There will always be pretty dresses and different color palettes and different cakes and new trends.  There is no end to it and you can’t do it all.  And that’s ok. 

The only “wrong” choice you can make is choosing something you don’t actually love.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OK – this is so crazy that you just posted this thread. I was just getting ready to ask/write a similar thread.  I haven’t changed my mind about anything thus far and all of a sudden last night I couldn’t sleep at all. My dress is quite formal, and I have been stressing myself over the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses and the fact they aren’t floor length therefore they aren’t formal enough. The only problem – for me there aren’t any elegant decent priced floor length Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses out there. WELL today I found the most perfectly priced, formal Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses that come in all sorts of styles in the same fabric.  My mind is now made up. No more driving myself NUTS……Oh the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses are Swoon,  http://www.swoondress.com

Post # 7
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2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh gosh, I changed my mind A LOT. Our colors changed just before we decided on our Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses, and I ended up changing my dress about 6 months before the wedding (even though I had already purchased one four months before that).

We changed our cake design so many times that I thought the baker was going to kill us (but she didn’t, she was super awesome about it), and a few days before the wedding, I made some floral changes. I think vendors expect it, so long as you’re nice about it and know that after a certain point, you can’t make changes.

You should be happy with your choices, so it’s okay 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I never knew I can be as indecisive as I’ve been! You are not alone!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

im about six month away from my wedding and i dont have a dress.  yeap… i had changed my mind so many times… first i wanted short red, but then i see a pretty long white dress and i wanted, then i think i should go with red… then i change again… and im scare of not making my mind of what i want

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Whoops, I was a little too quick to press send Embarassed

I struggled over location(s), style of ceremony, our wedding date, the time of our wedding, the reception, rings, honeymoon, OMG especially the honeymoon! The only thing I knew for sure was I wanted something small and intimate. But because we’re from different countries it was always trying to work with having something for both families.

In the end we realized we don’t want anything big, in fact it’ll be just us! It’s perfect and we couldn’t be happier! The family’s OK with it too, so now I have time to be indecisive about my dress, veil, and flowers!

Post # 11
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393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so glad you posted this, cause i feel like the most indecisive person in the world. Every week I change the colors, then i want to change the already puchased bridesmaid dresses!

Post # 13
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1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

choosing bmaid dresses was the hardest decision for me!  I felt SO much better once that was done.  It made me feel confident about everything else.

When are you shopping for them?  You need to go soon since they can take time to come in!

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