(Closed) Any other curvy gals with a thin fiance?

posted 12 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 62
1374 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I weigh about 10 to 15 lbs more than my fiancée and he’s 8 inches taller than me.  Blessed with a ridiculous metabolism, he’s pretty much a bean pole while I struggle daily to keep my weight down.

If anything, it gives me incentive to watch what I eat and get up every morning at 5 to work out before I go to work.  

The fact that his favorite hobby is baking, however, does not help the cause.


Post # 63
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Im bigger than my guy, but he doesnt mind. I mean, I need to lose weight anyway, for health reasons, and he supports that, but my size didnt effect our relationship at all (obviously since we are getting married). Heres us:

Post # 64
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think I’m about 40 pounds heavier than he is, and he’s only half an inch taller.  Who appears taller depends on what shoes we’re wearing.  Darn his metabolism.  I’ve gone up almost two sizes since living with him, and I am self-conscious about it.  He loves to cook, which does NOT help.

Post # 65
44 posts
  • Wedding: May 2011

My FH and I are somewhat close in size, I can wear his t-shirts… but pants don’t fit. I’m definitely bigger than him. It bothers me, but since he got an office job, he’s getting a little “belly” (You can’t tell, but he’s self-conscious about it). Hearing him complain about it sort of helps me feel less self-conscious because I know he’s complaining about something he shouldn’t be.
This picture was taken RIGHT after we were engaged, which is why I’m so giddy. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 66
42 posts
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am shorter and 45lbs heavier than my Fiance. He is 6’3 and im 5’5 but he loves me the way i am and i love him the way he is and that is all that matters.

Post # 67
1640 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

He’s tall (6’4″) and skinny and I’m short (5’5″) and fat.

I’m wearing 4″ wedges here.

Post # 68
881 posts
Busy bee

This is awesome!! I do sometimes feel like we look like the number 10, lol.  When we first started dating we were both really thin.  Now I quit smoking a few years ago and the weight stuck around.  I’m naturally pretty curvy anyway and only have about 20 extra pounds on me, but when you’re 5′ you really notice it. I’m working on losing it but still….. It’s nice to know other bees are feeling that way!

Oh, and this is a funny story.  I actually totally risked our safety recently at a water park.  We were on this two person wild water coaster raft thing and the signs stated that the heavier rider must ride in the back.  I was so self conscience that I refused to ride in the back!  As if they couldn’t tell that my booty was on the curvalicious side and he doesn’t even have one, lol Surprised

Post # 69
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011


It drives me carazy because he eats worse than I do and never seems to gain weight! He’s 6’6”, and I’m 5’7”. 

Post # 70
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Tswife4ever: I wouldn’t worry too much. I think you’re going to look great whether you lose weight or not (and no, I’m not just saying that.) ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 71
1835 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m curvy & somewhat overweight, while he’s skinny as all hell. ๐Ÿ˜€ It makes me uncomfortable sometimes too, but I’m glad he’s not really muscular & bulky; I’m into the swimmers’ build myself. : )

Post # 72
11 posts
  • Wedding: August 2011

My Fiance is 6’1 and I’m 5’1, and I outweigh him by about 50 pounds…boo.  He has a little stomach, but is almost stick-figured everywhere else” whereas I definitely am soft all the way around.  It doesn’t seem to bother him.  It does occasionally bother me and I sort of feel that “out of his league” thing, but I always remember that I’m the one he pursued and chose.  I am working on weight loss, but strictly for health/longevity reasons.

Post # 73
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My guy is tall (well, relative to me, anyway. He’s 6’1) and wasn’t always thin, but in the past year and a half he’s lost 70lbs. I’m proud of him, but it also drives me nuts because he goes through phases where all he wants to do is talk about food and exercise, and it drives me nuts.

I’m not all that curvy even, I’m just not tiny. I’m a street size 8. But sometimes the way he talks you’d think I was some kind of heifer because I didn’t want to do an ironman with him (his new obnoxious goal.) Yell

Post # 74
1 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow I think I have every one beat! My Fiance is 6’4″ 150 pounds soaking wet. and I am how do I say this round as I am tall!…….lol In the beginng this bothered me but now I could care less!


Post # 75
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010


I am defs bigger than my hubbie, but he has never made me feel uncomfortable about it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 76
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sorry if this pic is reallly big!!

As you can see yes I am about 50 – 60 pounds heavier and he has 4 inches on me!! Oh well.. he loves me for me!

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