Post # 77
Fiance is a lot taller and thinner than I am. It wasn’t always that way, but I gained a lot of weight in college. 🙁 I’m going on P90X soon because lately my weight has REALLY been bothering me, especially since Fiance keeps losing weight and looking more and more handsome! I chose this pic because you can really see my arm weight and I’ve got a belly in this pic! Fiance is slender, fit, tall, and incredibly handsome. I envy how men can keep themselves so thin and good looking without any effort at all!
and a pic of before I gained 40-50 pounds in college (yes, this is high school prom, but still!!!), Fiance was a little heavier back then and he’s LOST weight, What the *#&$#$!!!!! This is my goal weight, which was 120.
Post # 78
My Fiance is around 165 lbs and I am 220lbs so yep, I am bigger than he is. We are also almost the same height – he is a little shorter than me but won’t admit it. He loves curvy women 🙂
Post # 79
Let me tell you about it…. I am 5’3″ and 225… he is 5’10” and 125… so I am six inches shorter and 100 lbs heavier…I love him dearly and he is an amazing man but I am not going to lie for me it was not love at first sight…
me joke… we are like a walking number 10. lol
Post # 80
Ms. Smitten, love that corset!
I have a good 40-50 lbs on my fiance. Being a bigger girl, my weight was my major insecurity when we began dating. It was never an issue for him though. Not ever. He questions why we pay for Jazzercise when I never go, LOL, but that’s the only complaint he ever has. He supports my efforts totally to try and lose weight. He eats whatever I cook. He’s awesome and lovely. Even though my but is 3x bigger than his. 🙂
Post # 81
When my Fiance divorced his ex wife he was 210 lbs. He then couldn’t afford to eat due to child support payments (ha). When I met him he was about 180. He is down to 160 or so. He went from a 38 waist when I met him to a 32 now!! Meanwhile I am a street size 16. Ha, oops.
I do plan on losing weight for health reasons, but I will forever be curvy and he will forever be that awkward almost-ginger guy who tries to gain weight and fails.
Post # 82
I’m definitely bigger than my fiance and it bothers me because I gained all the weight after my ex and I broke up… like 30 lbs and I never lost it… Now everytime I see myself in the mirror I’m sad and I always wonder how he could even want to be with me… I’m definitely trying to lose 40lbs to be back to normal and not scared to wear a bathing suit on our honeymoon!
Post # 83
Me, for sure!
Mark is 6’2″ and about 180. I’m 5’6″ and … about 180. haha I gained 30ish pounds since we started dating: I call it Lovechub. Nights spent in sharing a pizza instead of going to spinning class, eating with him at 10pm when he got home, saying “what the hell” when he ordered a cheeseburger… that killed it. He still loves me though! And boy do I love him. 🙂
Post # 84
I love this board!! Fills me with love <3. My Fiance is half an inch shorter and 20pounds lighter. He also has a small frame, shoulders etc. Before we dated I fancied him and have a nick name for him… like my “pocket guy”. I didn’t tell him … 😛 hes insecure about it… When we got together at first it was hard for me to not focus on it, Then I was 30+ pounds heavier than him (I lost 10pounds). I have always dated taller, meater guys… but now I worry less, he can cuddle me perfectly, most of the time I forget we are alittle differently sized!! Maybe we are perfectly sized for eachother…. <3
Post # 85
Haha, I have to laugh. When I was picking dresses out, I didn’t want a SUPER poufy ballgown because I thought that would make me look WAY to much bigger than Fiance. As it stands, I am about 5 pounds heavier and 2 inches shorter, but he LOVES my curves. In the end, I think we look pretty cute together!!
Post # 86
By no means do I think I am fat, but I could stand to loose a few pounds. Fiance on the other hand doesn’t need to lose any weight. Maybe get in shape, but doesn’t need to loose weight, haha.
Here we are.
Post # 87
I totally get where you’re coming from SweetheartDealer! As I’ve started losing weight, my fiance has gained it all (which is a whole other issue), but he still weights 25 pounds less than me, and is almost a foot taller. He has a killer metabolism while I have hypothyroidism, and he says he loves me no matter how I look and just wants me to be healthy. When we first got together, I weighted a good 80 pounds more than him, and that was really hard. I know it kinda flopps all the standards of the girl being light and frail, with the guy able to flop her over his shoulder with little or no problem, but that’s just not how it is sometimes. Just be happy that you two found each other, and know that if either of you does want to change your appearance, the other will be there for you through thick and thin. 🙂
Post # 88
*raises hand* My Fiance is about 190 and I’m about 246, but I had weight loss surgery 5 months ago and weighed about 370 then!!
Post # 89
My Fiance is 7 inches taller and 10 lbs lighter than I am. I’m just on the obese side, and while he’s technically overweight, he has stabby knees and skeletal hands (how on earth is he overweight? Sure, his ribs aren’t showing any more because I actually make him eat on a daily basis now, but really?)
Post # 90
He’s about 70-80lbs thinner than I am. He’s got very little padding >:P I’m the squishy one, and not for long. But I don’t mind being bigger than him because he loves me for who I am, and not what I look like.