(Closed) Any other curvy gals with a thin fiance?

posted 9 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 122
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My Fiance and me. He use to be heavier and he does have to work hard to keep the weight off. He tells me he likes a lady with a little more.

Post # 123
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Fiance is taller ( 5’11) and thinner than me ( 5’2 and street size 22/24) but he like what he saw lol I am more self-concious but he helps me love the way I look :-).

 

He has been gaining a bit of a tummy but he says it’s because of my cooking and he doesn’t mind lol

Post # 124
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Busy bee

Not only is my Fiance thin, while I am plus size, he’s also about 3 inches shorter than me (I’m 5’8, he’s just slightly over 5’5). I will admit, I was a little self conscious in the beginning, but we’ve both become so comfortable with it that I barely notice. And somehow, even though he’s shorter, he’s still better at reaching stuff on high shelves. Sorry if the photo is too big.

Post # 125
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m bigger than my Fiance in every way! Height, weight, even my head is larger than his! lol! Lucky for me he was never bothered by me being taller or thicker and he being shorter and thinner so I never really noticed. I even still wear 5″ heels when we go out and neither of us are bothered by it!

Post # 126
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m definitely curvy and Fiance is pretty naturally skinny. Don’t get me wrong though, the boy has some serious muscle! City work has its perks ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

Post # 127
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@pocketfox:  I love that he is shorter but can reach the stuff on the high shelves better ๐Ÿ™‚ hahaha

Post # 128
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I used to weigh 180lbs (I’m 5’4″). My fiancé weighs 145 (he’s 5’6″). When I was that weight it was very noticeable that I was much bigger then him because we are so close in height. 

 

Now I weigh 135 and he still weighs 145, and I’d say it looks like we are about the same size now, but I’m more curvy then him obviously. 

 

My ex was 6’2″ and 250 pounds, and I felt a lot less self conscious around him, but I wouldn’t trade my fiance for anything!

Post # 129
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: July 2013

There is a huge size difference between my fiance and I. He’s 6′ and around 135 lbs. I am 5’8″ and…much bigger. I’m a size 26/28.

I am self conscious about it but he loves me and that’s all that matters. We both have body image issues. His about being thin and mine about being big.

Post # 130
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I can totally relate to this! Fiance and I are about the same height but he is so skinny and I’m not. Im probably about 30-40 pounds heavier. This used to bother me but hey, he really is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met, so I consider myself so lucky that we’re together…. Even if the sizing isn’t what I would have ideally chosen. 

Post # 131
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’m 6 inches shorter than my fiance and I weigh about 50 pounds more than him. It used to be more, but he’s gained a lot of weight in muscle over the past two years. It does make me feel self conscious sometimes, but I know that he loves my body. I’m glad I found this thread, it makes me feel a little more normal! And you all make beautiful couples ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 132
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Wannabee

I’m like a 100 pounds heavier than my Fiance, and he’s about 10″ taller than me. 

Though most people can’t tell I’m quite that much heavier than him, I get consious about it all the time. It doesn’t help that most of this weight was recently gained. 

Ah well. He loves me like crazy, and spends hours just staring at me, I feel very loved. I’d feel better if I lost some of this weight though. Can’t seem to will myself into starting a healthy eating/exercising regimen just yet though!

Post # 133
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I weigh a good 80lbs more. He says he loves me no matter what I weigh. We had a bad incident at the beach once, a group of 20 somethings next to us made the comment, “Thats odd, normally only fat guys like fat women” It didnt hurt my feelings too much but Fiance was fuming.

Post # 134
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

im an inch shorter than my Fi and about 28lb heavier. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 135
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Jaxx317:  can’t tell it at all.I would never know it or even THINK about it if you hadn’t said something.

This is something I think you think about more when you’re younger. I see couples all the time now in the store that are “mismatched” and I definitely don’t think they look bad together or anything. A couple is a couple. Now, I DO tend to pay more attention if one or the other is extremely attractive. Like way more than their mate? LOL Go ahead and judge me.

 

Weight is SO misleading. I don’t think its even obvious unless the two people are very different in terms of frame/body types. Like, my husband is probably a good 40lbs lighter than me, but because he’s a medium sized guy and a couple inches taller, I don’t think its real obvious. My thighs are ginormous, but his shoulders are broader, etc. Weight is distributed different and side by side, I think its usually the frame of two people that makes them either look smaller or larger than the other.

 

I know women in the same size as me (16W) who weigh a lot less or a lot more. There is just no accounting for distribution, muscle mass, etc. Numbers lie all the time.

 

Post # 135
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Newbee

My SO is lean and fit, and I am larger than he is by quite a bit. He still loves me greatly but I really self concious of what others think and of how photos of us together look like….

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