(Closed) Any other professional event planners out there planning their own wedding?

posted 10 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Not a professional planner, but I would say to hire a DOC! Take the pressure off yourself — you’re not working that day, it’s your WEDDING DAY. Don’t worry about “people”. I’ve never known someone to regret hiring a DOC.

Post # 4
7365 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Yep. I’ve planned a few national mobile marketing campaigns, press events and an international fashion show but I feel so useless when it comes to this 5 hour event LOL. Although I have serious control issues, I’m totally going to lean on a DOC. There are just too many details that I just don’t want to be bothered with. If something goes wrong that day or an issue needs to be resolved, talk to her, not me. 

Post # 5
2 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m a wedding planner by profession and I’ve hired one of my colleagues to do DOC for me.  I’ve witnessed weddings with and without DOC and I know I want that extra support system so I can relax and enjoy the whirlwind day! 


Post # 6
1137 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I work in experiential marketing and plan $1 million+ events for a living. Your post sounds like something I could have written when I was planning. First thing I did after engagement was create my “wedding binder” which had all of the same tabs as my “event binders”. I used the same budget, contact list, and timeline templates that I use at work. People though I was crazy, but that’s how I operate!

As for the DOC, GET ONE!!! It’s my single biggest regret from my wedding. I had worked with the catering manager from my venue, so I didn’t think I needed a DOC, but she ended up getting caught up in the kitchen managing the wait staff all night. When I couldn’t find her, I had to cue the DJ, track down the florist for the boutioneres, and go into the kitchen when my DH didn’t get his steak. I would have killed to be able to turn to someone else and say “take care of this” while I relaxed and enjoyed.

Also, there was extra pressure to ensure that the wedding was perfect because I am such a perfectionist at my job. But one thing I know is that as an event planner, you’re a duck in water…. cool and calm on the surface, paddling like crazy underneath. As long as my guests thought everything was perfect, it was. I know there were a bunch of things that went wrong, but no one was the wiser!

Post # 7
126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I just graduated from the Wedding Coordination and Design at The International School of Hospitality in Las Vegas, Nevada. I am currently planning my wedding and I am so thankful I went through the schooling. It makes it much easier not to fall into traps so many others fall into….and know what is negotiable etc. I am having another one of my fellow graduate classmates do my DOC and help a little with the design portion as well. I have no issue doing my own wedding and don’t seem to be overly stressed or distracted…I think my fiance and all of his wants are the biggest hurdle to overcome with the 30k budget LOL!

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