(Closed) Any other waiting bee’s getting physically Ill from the stress and excitement?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
456 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Try not to focus so much on the ring, and the engagement. Try to use that energy to focus on how happy you are with him, and to look forward to seeing him EACH DAY rather than looking forward to this one moment between you two.  That way, each day is special, and you’re not dying with anticipation expecting something more!

Hope that helps 🙂

Post # 4
181 posts
Blushing bee

honestly, i found that not reading the waiting boards all day helped.   i love the support but i was getting obsessed.  reading all the stories…the waiting, the longing, the anticipation…..AAAAAAHHHHHH…i was going nuts…lol  i focus on other stuff and when i do obsess about my ring…i look at the website and then move onSmile  its not easy…i know but you can do it!! 

Post # 5
3587 posts
Sugar bee

I agree with zalonia. A break from the board really helps. I still come to it, but since I’m going on a cruise next month, I focus on THAT message board. Yeah, I switched one obsession for another.LMAO

Post # 6
268 posts
Helper bee

Hives .. all over!!!!

Post # 8
30 posts

I talk to one really close friend once a week and get it all out. Everything I won’t say to my SO I tell thsi friend. She lets me vent for 5-10 minutes then we move on. I also find that woreking out helps relieve the stress. I got a little ill this week b/c we had a big family vacation with his family and I thought for sure he would propose, but he didn’t. I am faced with these thoughts for the next 2 weeks because I have a wedding each weekend.

I do think your waiting will be worth it!Smile

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