Post # 32
Wow your ex really was a vile human being. How can you get engaged to someone 1 month after a divorce?
My ex started talking to a girl his mom set him up with 1 month after he broke up with me through a txt msg. And this is the person I thought was the most amazing wonderful man I had ever met .
I am so glad you found love again. And I hope both of our exes get whats coming to them.
Post # 33
Thank you for your kind words. You sure are a strong person to have gotten back on track like that after your breakup.
Post # 34
Yes exactly … WHO DOES THAT!!! Imagine what exes like ours must have been thinking when they thought it was ok to break up with their fiancees over a text msg. Mine was a definite coward and a mommas boy (his mom broke us up). Never once called/texed/email me after that. Never ever heard from him since. That sort of cruelty is unfathomable until it actually happens.
Hopefully I can get over it oneday and just laugh at how messed up ones personality has to be to be able to do that with a clear conscience.
Post # 35
Think of how many millions of people are out there, unfortunately for you, you chose a “bad seed”…you can’t let one person affect you and your judgment of every other man you will meet…everything happens for a reason, maybe this happened now to protect you from something worse in the future…who knows? The point is, you’ve got to put yourself out there but not until you feel ready. I hope you have taken some time to yourself to build yourself back up doing whatever you need to do (going to the gym, traveling, spending time with friends, etc.)…there are great plans for you in the future, every challenge you survive only makes you the more strong, beautiful person you are shaping into today!
Post # 36
Thank you for your kind words. Although I know that situations like these makes one party more empathetic and better able to sympathize with others it just gets to me that its my ex that needs to learn empathy and not me. I could and never would leave a fiancee a couple of months before a wedding unless things were drastically wrong like abuse or infidelity. The fact that he would do this so lightly at his mothers say so angers me even more.
I really hope that I like you can run back to the other end of the tunnel oneday and tell someone else that theres is light at the end of it all bc right now its still pretty dark where I am.
Post # 37
More than once. At first, it always feels as if the pain will never end, but it always does, in time.
When I met my ex h, it was mad chemistry at first sight. We were insanely in love right away. Oh hell, we got married in two weeks.
It didn’t take long for me to find out I had married an abuser. I stuck it out for a year & then left. It would have been less painful to have had a kidney removed without anesthesia.
Any woman who has left an abuser understands the special pain of crushed hopes & dreams along with the strength of traumatic bonding–think Stockholm Syndrome.
What should have been a quick & easy divorce was a nightmare, thanks to the turd. I just walked around the house shell shocked & crying all day until the doctor put me on anti depressants.
In the midst of all this, I met my now dh. I was much too wobbly to think of anything other than friendship– he got that. He was attracted to me, but a perfect gentleman. There was no mad chemistry this time. Just the pure pleasure of being valued.
He would drive an hour each way just to take me to dinner & enjoy my company for a few hours. We also have a lot in common. It was 8 mos before anything happened & that was on my signal.
So here we are today, married & he’s still a gentleman & I still feel valued. And I thank God I got away from that monster of an ex. I can’t believe there was a time I thought I couldn’t live without that jerk.
Post # 38
I’m so sorry! Momma’s boys are hard. But I promise you there will definitely
be a day when you can laugh at how ridiculous it was (people told me I would feel that way and I didn’t believe them until the day it happened!). I still get angry sometimes. But it’s his loss and you will realize you are so, so much better off without him. I promise!
Post # 38
Iam 25, and in my whole life i only had two relationship. both of them with the same first name -_-. The first one, i met him in my university. I really liked him, we started to talk, chat for hours, go out. everything was ok and then one day, a small fight and he decides to stop talking to me. OFC i was depressed for a whole year. crying everyday almost. he asked for forgiveness, i did forgive him but I knew it wasnt a good idea to go back with him so i didnt. And then i met a girl in my university who really wanted that I meet her brother. I usually hate talking to someone that I don’t know much since I am shy and don’t know how to start a conversation. I don’t know why I accepted, so that guy with the same name as the first one, started talking to me. We used to talk for hours, snaps, and even started talking about getting married and the kids. Within a day, he wants to slow down and finally he says that he sees me only as a friend… Funny how someone who says he loves you, make promises and decides to ignore you. I do believe it can happen again, however I just don’t want that anymore, as if I can’t believe anyone anymore.
Post # 39
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