(Closed) Anybody DIYing the cake? My mom is doing mine… and I’m worried.

posted 7 years ago in Food
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Eggs, flour etc are v cheap. Go to the store, get the lot, and *gently* encourage a test.

Is your mum a by-the-recipe baker, or would she consider herself an ‘instinctive’ baker? You can’t really go messing with recipes unless you really know what you’re doing.

The baking itself is not difficult, but I for one would want a LOT of practice with the stacking & decorating etc. Would you consider using one of the stands with more than one base, i.e. the cakes aren’t actually sitting on each other? It would remove one type of stress, at least…

I think if you’re looking for a relatively simple cake, like a vanilla sponge with buttercream etc, you should be fine: if you want different flavours in each layer, maybe go to a few tastings just in case!

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Making a simple wedding cake actually isn’t that hard. You do need to use dowels and separator plates to bear the weight. You can’t just stack the layers directly on each other.

I would refer her to a cake baking website like http://www.cakecentral.com

You have to create an account to use all the features of the site, but it is free.

There are forums where newbies can get advice and read questions from others new to wedding cake baking- tips on transporting the cake also.

I suggest your mom needs to make a practice cake not only for the taste testing but for the techniques.

And yes, I would schedule some tastings so you could quickly order a cake if you need to. Only schedule tastings with bakers who have your date still available so you don’t waste your time.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh boy.  Baking isn’t easy.  Baking a cake, decorating it, etc is even harder.  I’m not sure if this is the best idea, but I understand that your mom wants to help.  I hope that she does a trial run beforehand.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@abbyful: Oh dear. Go for that tasting. That is not an easy list!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That chantilly cream – that’s fresh cream with vanilla extract. Do you really want your mum decorating the cake the morning of?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We didn’t have one cake–we had 7,8 or 9…don’t remember!

 

We incorporated them into our centerpieces at the table, on a stack of our favorite books.

 

And both sets of parents made them all!

 

AND they all turned out So So good. It was really fun to watch people try different ones too.

Italian Wedding cake, lemon, etc etc.

 

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Have her check out this site: http://www.weddingfads.com/

They sell cake kits. If she goes this route, it should turn out okay.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

Definitely have your mom make the cakes so you can try them at Easter. Those are some pretty complicated flavors to make for someone who rarely bakes.

My sister made our wedding cake, and it was a TON of work. She had to buy a lot of supplies, like larger cake pans, to make some of the layers. Your mom will also need dowel rods and probably some cardboard cylinders to put between the layers. We forgot the cardboard cylinders, and the layers were a little too heavy. As a result, the cake leaned a bit.

The logistics of making the cake were a little tricky too. I mean, this was a serious monster of a cake. If your mom makes the cake, how will you get it to the reception, where will you store it in the days before the wedding and during the ceremony, when will she put it together and decorate it? Luckily our reception hall had a full kitchen with a large fridge, and my sister was able to decorate the cake the morning of the wedding.My sister was also a Bridesmaid or Best Man who traveled from out of town for the wedding. She made the buttercream icing and some of the cake layers ahead of time, but she spent a lot of time at our reception hall the night before and morning of the wedding making and decorating the cake. The cake turned out wonderful, albeit a little crooked, but it was a big stressor the day before the wedding, and my sister didn’t get to enjoy getting ready with us or anything.

Why does your mom want to make your cake if she’s not a baker? Is it because she wants to help with something? Is there another way she can contribute? I would tell her that you’re worried that she won’t be able to enjoy the days leading up to the wedding if she’s stuck in the kitchen baking your cake. My other recommendation would be to do like @fiver did. If you have single cakes of different flavors, the baking, storage, and decorating would be much easier, and still beautiful.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Would you consider asking your mum to look after the flowers instead? They’re far easier to get right…

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

LOL! I feel your pain on all the mom suggestions just not working out!

I wanted to do my own cake, kinda.  My plan was to order round cakes in different sizes from Acme and stack them myself.  Then I was going to add either real flowers or silks to the top.  Could do it super cheap and well, I like Acme’s cakes…LOL!  But, mom said no, and I’m getting a cake for $278….not too bad.

Maybe mom will do this instead? You ca buy the stacking stuff at craft stores and walmart….at least you’ll know it tastes good and it will be iced already!

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