(Closed) Anybody here sad about their upcoming wedding???

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee

I will be sad for about… 20 seconds! Haha, seriously, I love planning, but I can’t wait to start thinking about decorating my house. Decor is just my “thing,” and i love it.

Post # 18
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950 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think what I’d miss most is how this wedding is forcing Fiance & I to be on the same page about EVERYTHING…seriously we are discussing every angle of the wedding to make sure we’re happy with what we’re doing.  That kind of unity in each decision is rather euphoric.  I know that the fact that we’re each the mouthpiece to our respective “sides” of the aisle & that we need to be a united front are the reasons we’re forcing ourselves to get on the same page.  Will that stay after the wedding?  If it does, then I’m not going to miss the planning…but if that disappears, I’ll miss it.  I mean, when else in life do we have to make sure every decision is totally compromised…or is that marriage? hmm….

Post # 19
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3538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I dont think the wedding planning will be over for me.  My wedding is in August, but I have been roped in to help 3 other weddings that are coming in september, february and March the next year. So.. I was kinda looking forward to mine being over. But I dont think its going to get me out of weddings completely πŸ™‚

Post # 20
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5385 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Not really because I see it as starting a new chapter in my life. I will probably shift my focus more to my career and landing a great job. Then either before or after that I will probably get pregnant. (So there will always be something for me to obsess over lol)

Post # 21
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1232 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I was thinking about this today actually! I don’t think I’ll miss the planning so much (although it has been a lot of fun at times) BUT I think I’m going to be a little bummed once the day is over! We’re putting months and months of planning and lots of $$ into this one day and I just kind of wish we could enjoy it for more than just a day πŸ™‚
Not that I’m going to feel “empty” or anything.
I totally understand what you mean πŸ™‚

Post # 22
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1313 posts
Bumble bee

It is such a beautiful creative outlet for me.. And I don’t believe that any other type of creative hobby can satisfy me as much as this… So I absolutely feel you.

I think I need to become a wedding planner next year πŸ™‚

 

Post # 23
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838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

aww I understand how you feel thats why im going to school to become an event coordinator and better yet I told my Fiance we’re renewing our vows every 10 yrs : p

Post # 24
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972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I will miss it too but excited to start my new life as a wife!

Post # 25
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671 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2021

I see both sides.  πŸ™‚  I’m getting tired of planning and just want the day to get here!  But boy will have a ton of free time on my hands when this thing is over.  HA!!

Post # 26
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114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I can’t wait till the planning is over! I have a million other hobbies that are getting put on hold because of this wedding. I’m excited about the wedding itself but I’ll be happy to go back to normal life. Plus, I can’t wait till the honeymoon!

Post # 27
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2393 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m going to miss the creative parts – thinking about colors and table scapes and paper goods.  The running aroud like a crazy person?  Not so much.

What’s helped is thinking about how I can keep doing some of the fun bits after the wedding is over.  All these bits of paper can be homemade cards.  Fiance and I can cook lovely dinners to eat on a table with an impromptu centerpiece.  All while actually having disaposable income!  Yaaay!  I miss it so.

Post # 28
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1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think I’ll miss bits and pieces, but I’m looking forward to being my FH’s wife!! He always says… “What’re you going to do with wedding bee after we get married?!” and I always say… “I’ll keep posting!”. I love being on here, I love all of the support, tips and fun!! I look forward to helping other brides out there!

And when we’re ready, I’ll post on the babies board, I’m sure ;]

Post # 29
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1206 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

It is hard once the wedding is over, sometimes, but I made sure to line up some projects for after the wedding so I wouldn’t feel so sad about it.  I made curtains for our home, I am making an afgahn for my new nephew, I am also hosting a baby shower/come meet the new nephew shower for my brother and sister-in-law, and I plan to start my wedding scrapbook soon!  We also did some home improvements, hang lights and curtain rods, and will be painting soon.  If you give yourself a list of things that need to be done AFTER the wedding, than you won’t feel so bad about not having anything to do.

Post # 30
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2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I think there will definitely be a period of post wedding depression for you, but just know that almost all brides go through that. Before our wedding, I was SO happy it was going to be over soon. We had so much family drama, and I was tired of constant projects and to-do lists. I just wanted to be married. BUT, two months after our wedding, it hit me. I was sad it was all over.

It goes away though. We started planning new, exciting things to do like buying a house, taking more long weekend trips, etc. Once you get through the PWD, you’ll realize that married life is so much better than wedding planning life πŸ™‚

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