- 3 years ago
Been with bf for 8 years on Nov 9th….we have discussed marriage and the details of a wedding for years and neither of us was in a rush. We have had a crazy few years between new jobs and health issues for both of us as well as purchasing our first home. 6 months ago I told him I was ready to get officially engaged and he agreed. Took me months to choose several rings any of which I will love. I wanted some say, but also for him to chose the final choice. So now he’s had my choices for several weeks and I am a bit disappointed since I kind of figured that it’s been 7 years and when we were ready and the ring was picked he would like get it the next day and propose the following weekend.lol. I did say I’d like to be engaged by Christmas so I am thinking he will either propose on anniversary or maybe some random weekend between then and Christmas. The waiting is really difficult lol but I’m trying to keep my mouth shut. He has never given me a reason to doubt him and always does what he says but now I’m kinda like…what’s the hold up??! He is very good at surprises and I’m pretty sure the ring is in the house somewhere but then again he could have just not purchased it yet…Really, I have no idea where or when I did say I prefer it to be just the two of us when he asks. I guess I did say by Christmas so I really cannot start asking until that has passes. Congrats to the bees who just got engaged !