(Closed) Anyone a hotwife? Fantasy question!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

This sort of thing doesn’t fit into my personal expectations or boundries of marriage, but I think your marriage is your business, and you don’t need validation from any other person about what is acceptable between you and your husband.

However, I won’t lie, I am somewhat religious; and if you have religious questions about this I would urge you to consider your hesitation and read up on what your religion or spiritual opinion is on this type of practice.

(btw, this is in the ‘ring’ forum)

 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Personally I would not be comfortable in that situation. I would not be turned on by having my man compete with another guy nor having my Fiance watch me have sex with someone else. Same goes for F-F-M, I would not be comfortable with having to “compete” for a man that is already mine.

However, if you’re comfortable with it, then there is nothing wrong with it. You and your husband set your boundries and do what you enjoy, don’t worry what you think other people will think of you. I assume you don’t talk about this in person, so the likelyhood of people finding out is slim. Who cares if people think you’re a slut or a bad girl, there will ALWAYS be someone who thinks that. I mean, I know people think I am a slut/bad girl for living with my Fiance, but it’s my relationship, not their’s so I don’t care what they think. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@thundersvine:  I hate the term slut.  So let me make this clear: You are not a slut. Please don’t be ashamed or think you’re a bad person.  

For me, personally, I would be interested in this. Either m-m-f or m-f-f.  FI, though?  Not so much.  ๐Ÿ™‚  

Did you enjoy it?  This is a pretty common fantasy, like you said, and if you and your SO enjoyed it and everything was consenual between all parties involved, then I think what you did is perfectly fine. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If youre both ok with that then why not? I fantasize about that but its just a fantasy cuz Darling Husband won’t have it. Also, he’d like to see me get it on with another girl but that’s his fantasy and not gonna happen anytime soon haha. More power to u!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d actually love to try that but Fiance says only F-F-M is allowed, which is OK too for me, but I’ve done that already and wanna try something new!!!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t be comfortable with M-M-F.  Much more comfortable with the idea of F-F-M.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

@thundersvine:  Oh it’s always been my fantasy! If you ever get around to doing it, would you let me PM you for details?

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Fiance loves the idea of the “hotwife fantasy”.  We’ve talked about it a lot but still not sure if I wanna go through with it.  I’m a good girl ๐Ÿ˜‰ lol

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

My fiance hates the idea which is awesome because it’s not for me either.

I would like to say that anything as long as you both enjoy it, there is nothing at all wrong with it. NOTHING. So enjoy yourself!!

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@S2013:  Agreed ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

oooh I would love to try it but Fiance is not for it. Either m-m-f or f-f-m. I DEFINITELY do NOT think you are a slut…it’syour own personal business with you and your husband. Go enjoy it girl! 

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree!

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