(Closed) Anyone been to a charity ball? What did you wear?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
3240 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

How expensive is the ticket? I would aim at twice the ticket cost, personally – if you are comfortable with that. You will probably find cocktail party wear to evening wear. In my hometown you would probably find jeans too, but that place is stubbornly cowboy.

Post # 3
46603 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can wear any floor length formal dress that you like. Rent the Runway can be a great option.

Belle of the Ball GownTake The Throne GownSapphire Serenity Gown Karla Drama Gown

Post # 4
1262 posts
Bumble bee
Post # 5
433 posts
Helper bee



I am a regular ball attendee (up to a dozen per year), and tt very much depends on the stated dress code. A traditional ball should be white tie, i.e., tailcoats for the men and full-skirted, floor-length formal frocks aka ball gowns, for ladies. These can be low-cut, strapless, with or without sleeves, etc. They are combined with court shoes, long gloves and your very best jewellery. Tiaras may be worn, but should be avoided if the ball takes place at a hotel. That is what traditional etiquette says, and in many circles this is taken very seriously.

However, these days many events get called balls. If you received an invitation, please check it as it should list the dress code in the lower right corner. If it says black tie, you can wear a simpler evening gown and forego the gloves. You can even wear strappy sandals, although they really tend to hurt your feet and expose your toes to clumsy dancers.

In many cases, you can also find information and even photos of previous events on-line, which may be helpful. Last but not least, consider if and how much you will be dancing. Tight long skirts, dragging hemlines, and very high heels are not ideal for vigorous movement.

Here are some dresses that I have worn in the past:

Theia silk organza ball gown (I love this dress so much that I bought it in three colours: sapphire, purple and a watercolour pastel)

I have also worn long evening skirts and matching or contrasting silk bustier tops to black tie functions. I see nothing wrong with that and like the versatility.

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