Post # 17
thanks 🙂 we’re doing the best we can. I’m being supportive towards my husband and in laws and my husband towards his parents. I think he couldnt comprehend where I was coming from when I told him how I felt but it’ll sink in and he’ll see that I’m hurting too but still being there for him. The biggest loss for me before this was my grandma and I couldn’t visit her grave every week either and when I did I went by myself. Just different ways of coping. It’s all new and being in a new marriage I expect it to be difficult in a lot of ways. This forum is helping though so I really appreciate your input 🙂
Post # 19
Thank you for sharing, I know you’re also going through difficult times. It does help a lot to talk to other people going through the same thing. I’m also very sorry for your loss.
We also spend a lot of time with my in laws to help them cope and not feel so alone. I don’t know how it’s going to be once the holidays roll around but we’ll see. I’m also trying to be the rock for everyone and at the end of the day I’ve given so much of myself I’m so exhausted. I do talk to my cousin and friends and it helps a lot. I guess taking it a day at a time is best, I need time to regroup sometimes so I can give my all to them later.