(Closed) Anyone else ?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh sweetie,

I know where you’re coming from, sometimes there is just so much.

Remember to keep some time for yourself, and eat, ad go to bed on time, and other than that, I have no answers because to be honest I am totally overwhelmed myself.

However you are not alone, and we are all here to struggle through this with you!

 

xxx

Post # 4
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871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Nods – Urgh its sometimes like treading water. We are renovating, I’m teaching new subjects with no curriculum; I’m writing it all, it is Certificate stuff, doing a Digital Pedagogy Licence (ICT in Teaching) and trying to plan a wedding and make sure my final units are written for when I’m on my honeymoon.

 

Lets send each other good vibes. That’s what us fellow Bees are for.

Post # 6
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1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

make a to do list so you dont forget anything. dont forget to make time for you, sleep, eatting. just remember this to shall pass. positive thoughts !

Post # 7
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878 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yup- I’m working 60+ hours a week, in school fulltime & trying to get misc. wedding tasks done.

Post # 9
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4659 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Yes, it definitely feels like too much. I’m so overwhelmed it feels like I should call the wedding off altogether!

Post # 10
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316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I understand exactly how you are feeling.  My fiance and I are getting married in…YIKES…12 days!!!  We still have so much to do!  In fact, I have wedding favors with me to work on tonight while I’m at work.  I started planning right after Chistmas, he proposed on Christmas eve, but am realizing NOW there are SO many things we had to wait to get done (ie, finalizing plans, finishing favors, food, final guest counts, etc…)  I feel like everything is going SO fast and I just can’t keep up!  BUT remember, your wedding day is about you and FI!  So long as you are there and he is there and you two get married, that’s really all that matters!  No one will honestly remember how perfectly teid the ribbon was around your fan handles, or how perfectly coordinated your unity candle was!  <3

Post # 11
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You are definitely not alone!!! I just graduated so I’m in the process of trying to get my licensed and certified, looking for a job, moving into an apartment, and get everything all together for the wedding.

Post # 12
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871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I try and do something small every week. I only have a few things to oragnise before the big day the rest is out of my hands.

Post # 13
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2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@miss islndgrl:  I think we are twins in so many ways right now and I understand! I’m getting married July 27, got a new job, have to pack up my classroom and re set up at a new school, finish report cards, finish DIYs, etc, etc, etc,. Life is going so fast I can’t keep up.

I made a “to do” list for my wedding and every day life, broken into very small chunks. My work list, for example, says things like “Pack up three cupboards”, “Take paper off one wall”, “Clean out animal tanks”, while my wedding list says “Finish one bout”, “Print escort cards”, “Paint board with magnet paint”. I find the smaller the chunks, the easier they are done and the better I feel. I rather have a long list with lots of 10 minute tasks than a short one with tasks that can take hours to complete.

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