(Closed) Anyone else a COMPLETE space cadet?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

You guys could just decide to get married thats what we did. No proposal or anything BUT I did have to wait until he had the $ for my ring πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Hey there fellow space cadet! I was too busy zoning out to even see you there! I don’t have any advice… because I am totally on another planet right now! Like yours, my SO promised it would happen by the end of the summer.. even more specifically.. the end of August! Wellllll buster it’s August 26th and my finger is lookin’ preeeeetty lonely right now!

I’m so so so so so sure that it’s happening this weekend. I have seriously done nothing productive this whole week. I keep thinking.. how-is-he-going-to-do? where-will-we-be? what-should-i-be-wearing? what-am-i-going-to-say?

Then I think… omg what if he doesnt? I’m going to freak out… I’m going to be sooo grumpy! If he doesn’t do it this weekend then WHEN?! What is his freeeeakin’ deal?

AND REPEAT.

I have completely lost all sanity. Welcome!

Post # 5
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3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’ve been chillin in another world for a good year now so I’ve developed these alien telepathy skillz. I’ll send some proposal demands to your boyfriend, since mine seems to be immune. πŸ™‚

Hope it happens! Best wishes!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Finally, I found my people!!  I am this crazy mix of excited/nervous/impatient with a mad case of wedding-brain.  My bf told me to expect a proposal by the end of the summer but recently he said it might take a tad longer since the ring took longer than he expected since its custom & a smaller size.  Or so he says… πŸ˜‰  Part of me wonders if he is trying to throw me off the trail since he wants me to be surprised.  I am going crazyyyyy with anticipation.  I’m trying to figure out which weekend he might ask, has he already asked my Dad, does he actually have the ring yet, how’s he gonna pull this off without me having a clue… Oh, did I mention I’m supposed to be getting work done this week?? Thank goodness for WeddingBee, that’s all I can say. ^_^  I’m crossing my fingers for both of you @Lalai: and @TinyTina:!!  <3

Post # 7
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

I’m a complete space cadet, but it’s because of the house, not the proposal. I’m focused on that right now. Maybe that’ll help to distract me….nah!LOL

I don’t have advice, but I say stay here and vent! Welcome!!

Post # 8
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113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m in the same boat! Can’t stop thinking about how badly I want to be engaged to my wonderful man. I swear the word “engaged” has crossed my mind at least 1000 times this week AND I know I still have at least 2 months to go. We plan on being married and living together by mid-Jan. 2011 and I told him I need 3 months to plan a wedding, 2.5 months TOPS which would make the proposal time around mid-Oct. which also happens to fall on our 4 year anniversary. I know it is coming soon but I am so excited I can’t think of anything else. Two more months of spacing out and going on wedding sites while I am supposed to be wokring!!!!

Good luck to all you ladies!

Post # 10
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

@Lalai: haha I keep doing the same thing… at least we aren’t alone!

Post # 11
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935 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

My heart goes out to all of you “end of summer” Bees! I know summer’s almost over…I’d be going nuts too.  My BF’s timeframe is 4 months at the latest, and he said that in early July.  So end of September to beginning of November I’m sure I’ll be more of a space cadet than ever!!!

 @Soon2bBB: yeah I’m supposed to be working too. Oh well!

Post # 12
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471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m just reading and nodding and agreeing with all of you. You have explained my life since February, and I’m to the point of anticipation exhaustion. Where do these guys get the “end of summer” idea? I know they give us time frames like that to calm our nerves and let us know they’re serious, but honestly… must it be so vague?! I’ll be waiting for some “YAY!” posts this weekend, because I’m going to stop thinking about my own “end of summer” deadline. I keep cycling from happy/content to anxious/jittery to apathetic/mopey. I found the secret ring savings account number today and I’m currently fighting the urge to sneak a peek at the account history in case he has decided to mysteriously spend it on something sparkly. I’m watching food network to keep my mind off of it.

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