(Closed) Anyone else bigger than FI?

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Post # 47
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444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

thanks, I’m pretty happy with us ๐Ÿ™‚ I also don’t really like that picture of me, but he looks cute and it’s realistic to our size differences so I posted it. I like pictures like this a lot more!

 

 

 

Post # 48
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5259 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@mcklough:  You are really pretty ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 49
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7321 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@bestbuddies:  You do not look 235, but I hear you, I can’t wait to shed not only this current baby weight, but the baby weight from uhhhh, 3 freakin years ago as well!

Post # 51
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587 posts
Busy bee

I’m over 100 pounds heavier (I weigh 290 pounds, and he’s of average weight), and one inch taller (I’m 5’5″, he’s 5’4″).  He only likes fat girls, so he’s quite happy lol.  

Post # 52
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1099 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  Fiance and I do have a bit of a difference. He is 6′ 1″ and 165 lbs, I am 5′ 9″ and 215 lbs. I did Weight Watchers about three years ago and got down to 188lbs. It made a big difference! I have put nearly all of that weight back on. I would love to get below 200 before our wedding. We have 98 days…of course, chop off some for fittings. I’m thinking I can still do it! This Easter candy is killing me…I second the Cadbury eggs. The Reese’s Peanut Butter ones are going to be the death of me!

Post # 53
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Treejewel19:  Damn girl.  You look good.  I remember when I was about 115-120lbs when Fiance first met me.  He was probably 230ish at 6′.  He’s told me that he used to get remarks like “how the hell did you end up with her?!”  “Isn’t she too good for you?!”  Shit like that.  

Post # 54
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Newbee

@Treejewel19: For the record I think you guys looks like a cute couple. Your engagment pictures are so cute, it really captures the love that you have for each other ๐Ÿ™‚ If you don’t mind me asking do you have any examples of people treating you differently, just curious.

 

OP: My SO is about 30 lbs, bigger then me, but we carry our weight differently so he does look smaller then me :(, plus we are the same height which doesn’t help

Post # 55
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Newbee

@Treejewel19: Another wierd question but I can’t help myself lol. Did your ring size get smaller when you lost weight? FYI I DROOL over your ring, it’s simply stunning.

Post # 56
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7941 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Rouquine:  Aww thanks! I get that people tease and believe me I do my fair share. I think there is a line that too often gets crossed as to what is appropriate to tease about. Saying your girlfriend is hot yeah fine awesome, saying that you don’t deserve your girlfriend/FI etc or that she must be with you for alterior reasons not okay in my book. Like I said we love each other and know where we came from, it hasn’t always been this way, so we ignore their comments and laugh.

 

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@laneae:  Wow where do I start?!?! Well for starters I am given more free food (comps) at restaurants, bars and hotels. I am also provided with superior service when I go to retail stores. The biggest difference is clothing stores like Express, Macy’s etc.  I don’t want to threadjack but yeah it is noticeable and I am just as outgoing and friendly now with the same confidence I had before. It has been an eye opening experience to say the least. The biggest offenders are the male employees (not surprise there huh?).

My ring has gotten a tiny bit looser and thanks! Thankfully he didn’t propose until after I had lost the intial 120 pounds so the last 10 pounds hasn’t made a huge difference. My ring is just a tad large anyway as I had to accomodate the full set with two wedding bands, which can get tight.

Post # 57
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@bestbuddies:  

Thank you! We had gotten engaged like an hour before this picture, so I’m still grinning like an idiot! It’s one of the only full body shots of the two of us that I don’t crop, but you can definitely tell our size difference!  I’m hoping by the time we have our engagement shoot with our photographer, I will be smaller, at least 20-25lbs lighter than I am here. 

Post # 58
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1105 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I can’t find a full body picture of us, but I’m bigger than him. He’s not mch taller than me (I’m 5’4″ on a good day) but I weigh about 50lb more (I’m guessing?). I worry that people think mean things about how we look b/c I’m so much bigger than him – I’m so worried about how our wedding photos are going to look!

Post # 59
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@MsLobizon:  Dont worry about your wedding photos. I am 50 + heavier than DH and look at how good we looked ๐Ÿ˜€


Post # 60
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1105 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@bestbuddies:  thanks ๐Ÿ™‚ I’ve seen some of your photos before, but not the first one! You guys look really great together,a nd you look so gorgeous! You’re really glowing

Post # 61
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46 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2016

We actually have a mix of height/weight differences. I’m 5’7″ & around 270 and he’s 6’5″ around 250

 

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