(Closed) Anyone else bigger than their SO?

posted 6 years ago in Fitness
Post # 3
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1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@itsmle:  I used to be!! He’s two heads taller than me and I weighed about 10 more pounds than him! We could wear the same pants!!

But then I lost 30lbs and now I’m less than him.

Post # 4
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95 posts
Worker bee

I am, and yeah it bothers me too. robs probably only 10cm taller (4 in) and about 15+ kgs (35 lbs). I’m definitely trying to lose the weight, optimum healthy weight for me would be about 5kg lighter than him. 

Post # 5
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275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m 3in taller than Fiance and weigh about the same. It didn’t use to bother me when I was 20lbs lighter but now that I’ve gained weight I feel huge next to him. It doesn’t seem to bother him at all, he still attracted to me and thinks the world of me. i guess his self confidence is much better than mine.

Post # 6
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3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I was significantly larger than him for years. I’ve dropped 50lbs. and am still probably 5-10lbs heaver than him and 5 inches shorter! It never seemed to bother him, but it bothers me. 

Post # 7
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758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yes, by quite a bit, weight wise.  FI has over a foot on me, if we’re speaking height.  Mostly, I’m okay with it.  FI doesn’t complain.  But some days it does make me self concious.  😛

Post # 8
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1645 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I was bigger than my ex. He was only two inches taller than me but he wasstealth skinny/lean and I’m more athletic with a bigger build. Darling Husband is 6’6″ (8inches taller than I am) and has a big build. I love the way we look together and that we have similar builds. 

Post # 9
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60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

My fiance’s 5’5″, 5’6″, and I’m 5’8″, so I’m likely always going to be bigger than he is. All of those ‘your ideal weight’ calculators say he’s best off between about 135 and 150 pounds, and my ideal weight is 145 to 165 pounds. It’s a little disappointing that I’ll never be able to be HEALTHY and weigh less than he does, but such is life.

 

My ex was 6’3″ and 150ish pounds, and I was significantly heavier than that at the time. There was no way I was going to be thinner than him.

Post # 10
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1748 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I use to be and it bothered me, but he was underweight, so I didn’t let it get to me. The day I finally weighed less than him was super exciting!

Post # 11
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1669 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Technically, he’s heavier but he is 5’11 and 140 and I’m 5’4 and 115. I’m totally bigger than he is and I am not a big girl. When I get pregnant, I will 100% weigh more than him! He’s a skinny dude!

Post # 12
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1508 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My Fiance is 6’4 and around 185, I am 5’6 and 200lbs. 

My goal is to weigh less then him by our wedding, aiming for 160-170. I ave 10 monthsm wish me luck.

Post # 13
Hostess
3571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Darling Husband is taller than me, but I weigh significantly more than him. He comes from a very small framed family, and that’s just how he is. As much as I struggle to lose weight and stay in shape, he struggles to gain weight. 

Since I’ve known him, I’ve lost about 35 pounds, but I will basically never be “smaller” than him probably. 

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